Reclaiming our Family Honor!
Reclaiming and regaining our family honor…that was stolen from us!
Taking back what Joan M Wheeler stole from our family!
ॐ शान्तिः शान्तिः शान्तिः ॐ
om shanti shanti shanti om
UPDATE Sept 2015 my new blog…
Duped by adoption, a book study An in-depth analyzes of the book Forbidden Family My Life as an Adoptee Duped by Adoption.
and a new Facebook page
UPDATE July 2015 added an LinkedIn account with a post
UPDATE March 2015 this post sums up the TRUE story of our family versus the ‘point of view’ of Joan Wheeler.
Update November 2014
The purpose of this blog is about exposing all the wrongs that Joan Wheeler has done to me and my family and telling the truth of myself and my family.
It would be wise to look at the ABOUT page to get updates that I have removed from this front page. It bears repeating…the sole purpose of this blog is about the behavior of Joan Wheeler.
Our commentary and reporting is our business.
The lying, hate filled book, called Forbidden Family, by Joan Wheeler is now dead. We told the truth and the publisher pulled the book because of its libelous contents. Joan Wheeler refuses to remove all of her blogs with that title and her hate words towards us.
This blog is to help reclaim OUR Family away from Joan Wheeler…she is the Forbidden One…she was NOT conceived in 1954, when this family picture was taken and can not claim this picture. She was adopted out of the family and when ‘reunited’ turned her hate and anger against us.
HI there! I had the unfortunate experience of reading Joan Wheeler’s book (it was free on Kindle and in my interest area). I’m adopted, and have recently extricated myself from a disastrous reunion forced on me by my birth family. All that said…Joan Wheeler is a self-pitying narcissist. I feel bad for you and your family. You reached out to her in what seems to be hope and love only to have the door repeatedly slammed on your hand…then she blames you for ruining her door jam! Her writing in this book is wheedling and ‘oh they don’t make me the center of my universe so I’ll make them!’ in tone. You and your family are in my prayers that she either wises up or just stops out of boredom.
always good to remember the behaviors
oh brother – here we go again. Despite Joan Wheeler’s lamentations and bitching that we, her birth sisters “interfere” with her life, she keeps dragging us INTO her life.
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In the wee hours of December 26, 2013, – 1:00am to be precise, Joan was on Twitter, going off on her ex-boyfriend. Apparently her website’s locale spotter showed a hit from New Mexico. Where the ex lives. So? It’s the public internet – Joan has a website for the purpose of people reading it. If the ex wants to read her website/blog – well, it’s a damn free country.
So Joan is accusing him of stalking her and she tweets that he should leave her alone, she’s now afraid of him, he is a bad person, she stuck by him when he was in jail, blah blah blah.
THEN she drags US into…
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always good to remember the behaviors
Joan Wheeler is overthinking, imagining and speculating again.
I blogged about this stupid behavior of Joan’s before on November 10, 2013 in this post “Overthinking, imagining, speculating, fantasizing – then reporting those erroneous thoughts as fact – this is what Joan Wheeler does on a daily basis” I am reprinting it here in its entirety, because she did it again the other day on twitter.
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She was ranting and raving about her ex-boyfriend. Apparently she found a hit on her website that came from New Mexico and she made an ass of herself because she ASSumed something again. Now, she may be right that the boyfriend or a member of his family went to her blog. There is no actual way of knowing.
But she doesn’t stop there – in her ranting, she says that she “KNOWS” he is watching the…
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always good to remember….
Joan Wheeler goes from manic state to depressive state awful fast over her latest FAILED romance. – all information and quotes are from what Joan Wheeler herself has put out on public internet for all to see. remember – if you don’t want people to read it – don’t put it on the internet.
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In a mess that SHE herself created, Joan first rants and raves about a guy she met at a bar back in June 2013. Within two weeks, marriage plans are made. What stupid idiot meets a guy and within two weeks makes plans to marry this total stranger? Joan Wheeler, that’s who. So she goes to New Mexico with the guy in August and the truth comes out. He’s an alcoholic (so is Joan, but she won’t say so in conjuction with this stuff – but did admit…
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Celebrate? Relax? Be with friends? Contemplate? Of course not! We know that she had a lousy Christmas, so her birthday must have been a great one?! Not!
No she searches the Internet looking for something to blow her stack over…and she found one.
In the following news story, she browbeats people over the evils of ADOPTION! She uses her ‘mantra’ that ONLY THE USE OF GUARDIANSHIP is acceptable! Her drum beat is… adoption is legal identity theft! On and on and on and on…keeping this up, her life span is very limited! She has NO LIFE in her LIFE. All she has is her constant refrain…the evils of adoption! (Joan is ‘adopteefedup’ on yahoo)
I saw the following January 7, 2016, comments speak for themselves, the time noted are when I captured and commented on the post.
adopteefedup 20 hours ago
I’m sorry, Adam. I’ve learned a lot from…
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Happy Birthday Joan! How many more years are you going to waste on hate and anger?
I’ve lived long enough now to know that there are several ‘significant’ birthdates; 30, 50, 60 and…
Well I can NOT project beyond 60 as I am still IN my 60s; not for long… but still…
I made several significant life-changes in my 50s. The best thing I ever did for myself was to do yoga. After 5 years of general yoga, in 2003, age 56, I began my journey into Ashtanga yoga and my life has NOT been the same since! On the eve of my 70s I am physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually more than I have ever been in my life! And I’m not done yet! My partner, 76, is a 3rd degree Black Belt! Continuing on, by the time he is 80 he will have what Willy Nelson has…
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As a member of the ‘birth family’, my life, my children’s lives, my entire family’s lives, along with the lives of the adopted parents family, mostly the MOTHER, have been maligned in this revisited (revised over and over again) by one, Joan M Wheeler, hater of adoption, her two families and ANYONE who is in the least bit pro-adoption.
None of us, which are WRITTEN about in this garbage book, were given prior knowledge that OUR lives would be written about, we had NO input into the contents of the bookS (plural books), we gave NO permission for our lives to be discussed, slandered and libeled, and fabricated like a soap opera!
And so…we do what we have been doing and must do…write blog posts exposing the dirty deeds of Joan M Wheeler.
At this time, 6 January 2016, there are 11 reviews, with several comments, and blog posts that…
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Boy do I have power or what?!
I find it so interesting to note that Joan DOES bow down to my evaluation of her writings! Because of MY criticisms and exposure of her hate, anger and mistruths, she HAD to do major rewrites on Amazon. Gosh she might learn something after all, and, readers will see just what ‘is’ behind that curtain of Joan Wheeler’s agenda!
Here is what I placed on the Amazon discussion topic regarding her rewrites.
A new discussion topic
changes in what’s in the book, about the author and bio sections
Your initial post: Jan 2, 2016 1:18:44 PM PST
gert mcqueen says:
I’ve notice that as of Jan 2016, the author has changed the About the Author, what’s in the book, and the Biography segments here on Amazon. I guess an author has the right to do so, but, doing so makes it look…
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NEW BLOG POST REVIEW # 9
An eye-opening book…
Too bad, that most of those that read it, and/or review it, are BLIND to the fact that the book is pure BULLSHIT. The reason they are BLIND? They have been DUPED, by Joan, into believing Joan’s BULLSHIT. There is nothing in this revision that helps the cause, of reforming adoption laws, to give adoptees access to their birth/medical records. Joan doesn’t give a shit about reform; she deleted four chapters that had any information that could be of use for reform. Joan is not a reformist. She is an abolitionist! She will slant/fabricate anything to prove her points. She knows that most ‘non-thinking’ people will NOT question her because she is so GOOD at the art of deception.
Joan M Wheeler should not be believed! She has even ‘revised’ the TRUTH, from the first edition to the second edition! How can anyone believe what she writes…
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