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Joan Wheeler just can’t accept that others are happy!

by on September 15, 2011
How Joan Wheeler and other angry adoptees go after legitimate adoptions…they just can’t accept that others are happy!

UPDATE, FEBRUARY 2016, as older posts are being seen I’m updating with links to my second blog and a Facebook page wherein I expose AGAIN the lies, fabrications and hate that Joan M Wheeler says about me and family. After the first book was pulled from publication by the publisher, May 2011, she has ‘self-published’ another ‘revised’ version. In this ‘version’ called ‘duped by adoption’ she has increased her exploitation by including PICTURES and REAL NAMES and much more personal information violating again the families. Joan has no decency NOR shame. There is NOTHING in this book for adoption reform. She is totally against adoption and her two families. To learn more see…

https://gertmcqueen2.wordpress.com/

https://www.facebook.com/dupedbyadoption1

NOW WE CONTINUE WITH THIS POST…

The following news story is no longer accepting comments…but…it is still up there for the reading. While I’m no longer able to place a comment on the news site I will address it here on our blog. First you will see Joan Wheeler’s comments on the Adult Adoptees Advocating for Change public forum and then her two comments she placed on the news site. Notice also that she uses another of her alias ‘legitmatebastard’.
Paid close attention to how, in Joan’s expert opinion, in italics, that
“NPR needs the education!” and
“I would love to be interviewed on NPR in promoting adoption reform and my memoir/social work assessment: FORBIDDEN FAMILY: A HALF ORPHAN’S ACCOUNT OF HER ADOPTION, REUNION AND SOCIAL ACTIVISM”
Can you see and hear it! Joan Wheeler being interviewed about adoption reform and her discussing her JUNK science hate-fest of a book!!! At the first hint of not being understood by an interviewer she would probably start yelling and screaming at them and then she would loss all control in her fits of hate and anger. Sure, right! And the inclusion of the ‘degrees’ after her name BA, BSW are meant to IMPRESS…don’t you know she has a social work degree, but never mind that she doesn’t have any work experience behind it and her presentations are all junk…all she has to do is open her mouth and speak for everyone to know that she is full of shit.
NPR and Scott Simon ought to be invited to visit our two blogs for an in-depth look at the book, her assessment and her life! Can you imagine what those people at NPR were thinking if they went to Joan’s blog and saw all that hate against her own family?
And then paid close attention to how she MUST tell the world about her PAIN.
‘I am forever tortured by what the adoption system did to me and the siblings I was never supposed to know. I am a half-orphan raised an only child, yet born the youngest of five children within a marriage, given up to adoption by our father one month after our mother died. I was 4 months old.’
She is tortured!!?? NO… the SYSTEM did nothing to Joan Wheeler…she did it all to herself. And look at the self-pity…its ALL about her!
Just another example of how Joan Wheeler browbeats others, is full of hate and anger and can’t even be happy.
Title: New NPR story on: Scott Simon’s Family: ‘In Praise Of Adoption’
Post by: 1adoptee on August 23, 2010, 01:08:12 PM

I see that the story broke here already, but there are two NPR stories on Scott Simon:
today’s will have audio after 5pm:
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=129375629
Scott Simon’s Family: ‘In Praise Of Adoption’
Reading and discussion on book Baby, We Were Meant for Each Other by Scott Simon Copyright 2010 by Scott Simon. Audio for this story from Fresh Air from WHYY will be available at approx. 5:00 p.m. ET August 23, 2010
and
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=129301982
‘Meant For Each Other’: Scott Simon’s Adoption Story
August 20, 2010 Listen to the Story Morning Edition
 Title: Re: New NPR story on: Scott Simon’s Family: ‘In Praise Of Adoption’
Post by: 1adoptee on August 23, 2010, 03:32:39 PM


Yes, I see your comments! Bravo! I’ve Recommened all of our comments, and psoted two of my own! Don’t forget to comment on today’s story, too, as I think Scott Simon is getting far too much exposure for his happy-for-now adoptive parent story. I put in a plug for my own memoir and pointed out about sealed and falsified birth certificates. Anyone else care to comment more on birth certs? NPR needs the education! Thanks!

If an NPR staff person can be interviewed, twice, by his own place of employment, surely there is need to open the discussion to an adoptee’s point of view. Here’s a hint Scott Simon: Let an adoptee be heard on NPR! As a reunited adoptee for the past 36 years, I would love to be interviewed on NPR in promoting adoption reform and my memoir/social work assessment: FORBIDDEN FAMILY: A HALF ORPHAN’S ACCOUNT OF HER ADOPTION, REUNION AND SOCIAL ACTIVISM, Trafford Publishing, Nov 2009, http://www.trafford.com/Bookstore/BookDetail.aspx?BookId=SKU-000137652. My website: http://forbiddenfamily.com.

Joan Wheeler born as Doris Sippel, BA, BSW Monday, August 23, 2010 3:23:40 PM

When a child is born, a birth certificate is issued. Upon adoption, the birth certificate is placed under seal and a new, amended and falsified birth certificate is issued to REPLACE the child’s true Certificate of Live Birth. This is done in domestic adoptions, as well as intercountry. Meaning, when a white couple adopts a Chinese baby, the adopting parents are named as parents of birth in China!
Kinship care and family preservation must be the first choices of care if the natural parents cannot parent their child, or if a child is absolutely a full orphan. If family preservation is not possible, legal guardianship must replace adoption because it does not replace the child’s birth identity.
I am forever tortured by what the adoption system did to me and the siblings I was never supposed to know. I am a half-orphan raised an only child, yet born the youngest of five children within a marriage, given up to adoption by our father one month after our mother died. I was 4 months old. Joan Wheeler born Doris Sippel Monday, August 23, 2010 3:23:09 PM

GERT HERE Feb 4, 2016…as I’ve reread this older post I’m still stuck at how Joan’s narrative hasn’t changed! She still can’t recall whether she was 3 or 4 months old, she makes that mistake often, she refuses to accept the fact that it was the 2nd wife of our father who REFUSED to take her, in their marriage of convenience, and that was the reason is was placed into adoption and that kinship care, family preservation was NOT an option in her case…our father believed THAT  if he could NOT raise her NO ONE IN THE FAMILY WOULD. Joan refuses to accept reality.

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