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from Nov 13, 2011 Parade Magazine
Your reply to the question about the 25,000-mile band around the earth was so counterintuitive that I thought you had lost your edge. Then I did the math and learned that you were correct. Yet the answer still seems wrong to me. My question: Why do we cling to beliefs even after seeing facts that contradict them? —Steve Morris, Lincoln, Neb.
Because people get freaked out at the notion of being wrong about anything. It makes them feel insecure. If you can be wrong about this or that, what about all the other stuff that you think you know?
And the more important the subject, the more unnerving the emotion. It’s not too scary to be incorrect about a math concept, but how about the car you bought? Or the doctor you chose?
Your question goes to the heart of much unsound thinking.
Then, after we leave school, we tend to head down one of two roads: 1) We close our minds to new or different information while becoming more and more sure of ourselves as we get older; or 2) we watch, listen, and continue to learn as we get older. The second road has way more bumps and curves, but it’s also the path to wisdom.
Unsound thinking…do I have to say any more? Perhaps!
It is people like Joan Wheeler who have serious problems with thinking and understanding reality that cause the pains and destructions to other people. Just because Joan thinks one way about something DOES NOT make it true. The harm that is done by UNSOUND thinking to other people is a crime! Just because Joan is so insecure in her own life is no excuse for her to tell lies to boost her sense of self.
Until Joan Wheeler REMOVES all internet sites that tell about that libelous book she wrote and her slanderous statements against myself and family…I shall continue to speak out and expose every sentence and every lie that Joan Wheeler utters!
today, 6 June 2013…I’m starting to update items on my about and front pages…
and will do a bit of revamping and moving things around…all in good time…
a lot has happened and has been exposed since this post was written…but…
there is still a lot more to do….
the truth still is here for the birth family to speak about…
we have had success in getting many of Joan’s lies exposed and many of her ‘pals’ shut down…
we have had success in getting Joan to remove many statements on her ‘main’ blog
we have had success in getting Joan to remove a ‘false’ website using a famous dead person as a cover just to continue exposing her hate to us.
we have had success in getting ONE of Joan’s boyfriends to TAKE DOWN his blog against us
we have had success in getting the OTHER boyfriend of Joan’s to at least shut his mouth, for the moment that is…
we SHALL have success in getting him shut down totally…it will just take time….
we also SHALL have success in getting Joan to shut down…all in good time my pretty!
unsound thinking…there’s plenty of it out there…and for as long as it takes…
I shall continue to expose the dirty rotten words and deeds of Joan Wheeler
count on it!