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Joan Wheeler is lying again about Dad’s care and when he died!
Post by: 1adoptee on November 22, 2011, 10:22:35 AM
It as soon after that that my natural father and I got into a tift about cars. My car needed repairs to over $2,000 and my adoptive mother took out a loan to pay for it (I’m too broke and unemployed). So, we asked for Dad to pay half, he refused. Mom yelled at me that I drive him all over the city to help him out, yet, he couldn’t help us out when we needed it. Dad also never owned a car so got rides from everyone. He also said that “all of my other kids work,, so you help me out a great deal and I appreciate that, but you don’t work.” I was insulted, at the same time feeling glad that I could help him out and upset that my own illnesses kept me from working. So, That kinda ended our relationship. About a year and a half went by; I had a hunch he was going to die. I went to see him and he was in the hospital, dying. I said my peace to him, told him I loved him, and we hugged. He died a few days later. A few months later, my adoptive mother died.
Now, all four of my parents are dead. it hurts to think of forced choices, especially since I had to choose to save my sanity.