Big Bad Russ speaks – (Joan Wheeler sics her boyfriend on us) – too bad we found it a year and a half later – well, better late than never.
it took us awhile, but we found this gem! (Actually Gert found it). Back in the fall of 2010, my blog started receiving some nasty comments from a guy called Russ. He would routinely call me a bitch. I finally labeled his comments as spam so they would automatically go into the spam folder, then be automatically deleted. After a few months, we found out that Russ was Joan’s boyfriend. I had contacted him once via email, asking him to stop leaving obscene comments on my blog, and to not bother answering my email, as I did not wish to have contact with him but he answered me. I don’t remember what he said, but I just ignored him. About a month later he emailed me again. I notified him, via my blog that I do not want him to contact me, and since he contacted me via my private email after I told him not to do, he was now guilty of harassment. I threatened to call the police. We never heard from him again.
This was February 2011. BUT in January 2011, at the funeral home, in the same room that my father lay in his casket, an eyewitness stood behind Russ to await her turn to sign the funeral book. She witnessed the man write a long message at the bottom of a page, turn to another page and sign. She signed after him – and flipped the pages back to read a hate message directed at my father and signed by the names of 4 dead men and one living man, who at the time was in Florida. These 5 men, the brothers of my late mother, who made no bones about not getting along with my father certainly did NOT sign the register. The message was to my father to “rot in hell.” The eyewitness, signing after Russ, noted his name and described him to us. Russ did not know our family, the only way he knew to write this disgusting hateful message was at the request of Joan, who wanted to strike back at everyone in fell swoop – the birth father who gave her up for adoption – her birth sisters who would read it and get upset – the brothers of my mother who didn’t stop her adoption – my father’s new family – my stepmother, her daughters and their families, who, along with myself and my husband in my father’s hospital room made the decision that Joan be excluded from the wake and funeral (due to her troublemaking). We did agree to tell Joan to come to pay her respects at 4:30pm, AFTER the family had left – and she came at 4 – her daughter came in as we were leaving, and she wrote me via facebook that she was with Joan and Russ. They must have been in the car. When someone tells you to come at 4:30 – you come at 4:30 – not 4:00. Catherine also says she didn’t see Russ write it. The eyewitness said that Catherine and her mother Joan were at the casket – with their backs turned away from the book. So of course she didn’t see it. Look, the writing was NOT there when I left at 4pm, the eyewitness and Joan and her boyfriend and daughter were the ONLY ones there between 4pm and 7pm (according to the funeral director) when we returned. The eyewitness also described Joan mouthing off to the funeral director.
We blogged about all this and after I threatened to call the police on Russ – we never heard from him again. But before all that – in October 2010 – Big Bad Russ started his own blog. “Russ’s World.” Gert found it this morning. this is such a joke – Big Bad Russ only had one entry – a clear attack on us – oh wow – we’re scared. But it shows everyone what a hypocrite he is. I also found out that in December 2010, he joined Badoo – a dating service. Apparently, he clicked on Badoo’s request to access the “contacts” he had in his email. So I got a sent an invitation, seemingly from Russ to join Badoo. I did. Under a disquised name and email. And I read his profile – he’s interested in sailing and sex. lol – that’s class!
Here is Big Bad Russ’ one and only blog post, followed the comment that I submitted, but which he will not have the guts to approve and publish.
Posted on October 29, 2010 by rus623 http://rus623.wordpress.com/2010/10/29/hello-world/
I decided to start this blog after reading so many mean-spirited and slanderous blogs. That, really, is not the way to get your point across. Say what you want to say but don’t attack, demean, or cast aspersions on anyone. I want to publicly apologize here if I have done any of these to anyone. Now to comment specifically on a certain blog here at WordPress. It is posted by Ruth Sipple Pace. In it she attacks her youngest sister most vilely, saying she wanted to remove her sister’s teeth with her fist. This is extremely barbaric. I would like to think this was not a common way for her to act. I do however have doubts about that. The other two sisters, Gert and Kathy, also have disagreements with Joan, but do not sink to quite this level. They all call Joan a liar. I think this might be a collective denial of sins past. So be it. I can’t say I have any proof of what is true. Some one is fabricating but who is left for readers and God to figure out. I tend to believe Joan because I know her. I only know her sisters through their writing, and I am not expecting to meet any of them soon.
I invite everyone to hit both Joan Wheeler’s blog(Cyberbullies) and Ruth’s(Forbidden Family:Lies) blog if you want to see what is going on. I do know that Joan doesn’t want any contact with her sisters. I challenge them to honor that. Comment all you want on her book. Don’t comment on her.
my comment (which is awaiting moderation):
of course, Russ, you won’t dare to print THIS comment – because I shall tell everyone right here and now how MEAN-SPIRITED you are.
Yes, you first come on my blog and call me a bitch. Not once, but twice. Then you emailed me via my private email. And called me a bitch. When I told NOT to email me again, you did. You claimed you were only “trying to help.” Riiggghhttt. you try to help someone by calling them a bitch.
After you were seen by an eyewitness writing a hate message in the funeral book of my father in January 2011, and I blogged about and threatened to call the police – you acted like the cowardly little cur that you are – that is – you hid your tail and ran away. From me, from my blog, AND from your “relationship” with Joan. Oh, you are such a big man. And not very mean-spirited? HA! – well, thanks for the laugh Russ, even if it’s a over a year later.
And I will comment on her – especially because in her book she says that I have an arrest record – which is completely false and I have provided court documentation that disproves it. Joan is a liar – you are a liar – and you are both lying cowards and troublemakers.
When Joan decided to write a slanderous book, she opened herself up to full disclosure of both her book and her personality. that’s the way Freedom of Speech works Russ. If Joan has the Freedom of Speech to say what she wants about me, then surely, I have the same Freedome of Speech to say what I want about her. The only difference is: Joan tells lies. I speak the truth. Apparently, Big Russ couldn’t handle the truth and ran away. Ain’t nobody missing him!
Let’s make sure that we ALL see this statement from Rus’s blog above…
“I do know that Joan doesn’t want any contact with her sisters.”
And like I’ve said for decades now, there has been little to no contact between us UNTIL Joan wrote that lying libelous book and we, Ruth and Gert, decided to refut and set the record straight. Doing that is still NO CONTACT, for we have had NOT CONTACTED JOAN…but…Joan has CONTACTED US…on March 5, 2012…and why…because Joan is lonely, no one will talk with her anymore, because Joan NEEDS to attention…and because March 5th was an anniversary of when we CONTACTED HER!
This woman doesn’t get her own dictum…no contact means that Joan DOES NOT make contact with us.
And I will say it again…listening Joan…the only contact we want from you is to REMOVE THE TWO HATEFUL LIBELOUS BLOGS AGAINST US.
it was only by chance that I came across this blog and post…which was written LONG before you Rus, went with Joan, unannounced to my parents home and to the hospital and then to the calling hours and then there’s the memorial book! People can find out all about that by visiting Ruth’s blog @ ruthsippelpace.wordpress.com
I now have a blog of my own @ gertmcqueen.wordpress. com …..where in I continue on with exposing all the dirty deeds and words that Joan Wheeler has indeed done.
publish this or not…I know of it’s presence.
I have never before been accused of writing hateful things in a guestbook at a funeral. This is probably due to me never doing it. Ruth’s eye witness is either blind or has no idea who I am. I merely signed my name. I respected your father, more than you could possibly know. I would never dishonor him the way y’all have.
Th above was a short comment that I placed to this post. I have answered him more fully in a separate post: Big Bad Russ responds – here’s my answer!
my blog concerning you will be deleted, if you don’t remember my email, I apologized for calling you a bitch. I truly meant that apology. The only thing I wrote in the book at the funeral house was my name and address. I wrote nothing else! If there was something else there it was written by someone else after I had gone.