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Joan as her imagnary friend Chimp asks a question and gets shot down with my answer

by on June 27, 2012

What have either of you done to try to understand why Joan feels the way she does about adoption?

What do we have to understand? Right at the top of my blog is the following page: “read before commenting on this blog.”

I posted that page on September 3, 2011 and since Chimp, who thinks “he” is defending Joan, asks a question that has already been answered, we see that Chimp is a complete idiot. sigh, so read this and learn Chimp, or rather Joan:

read before commenting on this blog

Adoption issues and the purpose of our blogs
by Ruth Sippel Pace – September 3, 2011 –
To clarify the position of the birth sisters of Joan Wheeler:

We have already dealt with “adoption issues,” YEARS ago. Joan Wheeler was adopted out in 1956 and we were reunited with her in 1974. We have dealt with the issues of seperation and reunion more than THIRTY YEARS AGO!

We do not need to be lectured anymore on those issues. We have read, we have researched, we have learned. We did our duty in feeling sorry for Joan a long time ago and moved on. What people fail to understand is that our issues with Joan is NOT about adoption or reunion at all! It is dealing with Joan’s BEHAVIOR! Interfering with a minor child, telling them not to obey their parent, lying, stealing, stalking, calling people’s job to get them fired, writing letters to people saying their spouse impregnated other women – these are some of the anti-social behaviors that Joan Wheeler has engaged in that affected us. Then the final straw, writing and publishing a book that contains gross lies and misrepresentations – for the sole purpose of ruining people’s reputations. And those lies in the book fell into the legal definition of slander and libel and caused the book to be pulled from publication BY THE PUBLISHER.

Are Joan’s anti-social behaviors caused by her adoption? Perhaps – but THAT DOES NOT EXCUSE THEM! Adofl Hitler was abused as a child. We give him no sympathy. Now I’m not daring to compare the slaughter of 6 million human beings to the pain that I endured as a victim of Joan Wheeler – the point is – I WAS HURT AND HURT DEEPLY BY JOAN WHEELER AND I DON’T GIVE A DAMN THAT SHE WAS ADOPTED OR NOT! She does not get to garner sympathy by using me as her footstool.

The topic of adoption does come up from time to time on this blog. This is because it’s Joan Wheeler’s obsession – to relate EVERYTHING in her life to adoption. This includes us, her birth sisters. She insists that we have problems due to HER adoption! She may be partially correct, but not in the way she thinks – our problem with Joan’s adoption is because we are sick of hearing about it. Our lives do not revolve around adoption and we wish that Joan would understand that.

As to people wanting to lecture me to “forgive and forget and move on.” – Been there, done that. I had already moved on. And so did Gert. We were more than willing to live our lives in peace and quiet and indeed were doing just that since around 2004! It was when Joan put that lying book out in November 2009 that we said “ENOUGH! The world will now learn the truth about Joan and we will hold nothing back!” And Joan continues to this present day to lie about us on the internet. And we will counter every lie she spouts with THE TRUTH!

Anyone who can’t handle THE TRUTH can just leave this webpage right now. And don’t look back. As noted author Harlan Ellison says, via a sign on his door, DIG OR SPLIT!

Our standing up to the bully Joan Wheeler via our blogs IS NOT AN INVITATION FOR PEOPLE TO COME AND PASS JUDGMENTS ON US AND OUR LIVES.

By publishing that filthy book and maintaining her websites of lies,  Joan has trampled on our civil and human rights. AND OUR CIVIL AND HUMAN RIGHTS ARE NOT NEGOTIABLE.

– thank you D.G.

 

  1. All of us can point to some unfortunate experience from our past and use it as our scapegoat. I could use my brother’s suicide or my parent’s divorce or my physical abuse at 18 to make excuses for why I have made bad choices over the years and gain pity. Why would I do that, though? We are each accountable for our own happiness and successful relationships. Children who don’t mature or adults with serious personality disorders seek the type of pity and excuses this woman seeks. She’s sick with a sickness that has no cure. The best thing that can be done is what you’re doing and that’s exposing her lies and abuse. It’s her need for pity that gives her away.

    People who deserve our pity, don’t want it. They just want our love and support.
    People who want our pity, don’t deserve it. They just want to fool us into loving and supporting them.

    Anyone who supports her should think twice and instead offer her suggestions to change or think differently. Soon those supporters will become useless to her, and she’ll seek more victims to gain pity from.

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  1. All of us can point to some unfortunate experience from our past and use it as our scapegoat. I could use my brother’s suicide or my parent’s divorce or my physical abuse at 18 to make excuses for why I have made bad choices over the years and gain pity. Why would I do that, though? We are each accountable for our own happiness and successful relationships. Children who don’t mature or adults with serious personality disorders seek the type of pity and excuses this woman seeks. She’s sick with a sickness that has no cure. The best thing that can be done is what you’re doing and that’s exposing her lies and abuse. It’s her need for pity that gives her away.

    People who deserve our pity, don’t want it. They just want our love and support.
    People who want our pity, don’t deserve it. They just want to fool us into loving and supporting them.

    Anyone who supports her should think twice and instead offer her suggestions to change or think differently. Soon those supporters will become useless to her, and she’ll seek more victims to gain pity from.

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