Guest post from Gert’s daughter Karen with update from Gert
UPDATE July 8, 2012…
be it known that Joan Wheeler has enlisted one, Brian T Maloney of Williamsville, NY to harass, browbeat, insult, belittle, intimidate and cyberbully the birthsiblings of Joan. We do not know this Brian T Maloney who has a blog ‘defendingjoanwheeler.blogspot’ who calls himself Champ, and he has left a bullying remark Dec 2011, on the Buffalo News website article on birther issue of Joan Wheeler . This man is an abuser to women he does not know. By a sheer twist of fate, Brian is the son of the late Arthur J. Maloney, who was a well respected attorney in the Buffalo area, AND long-time friend and attorney of our stepmother (from the late 1960’s) and long-time friend and attorney of our father Leonard Sippel (since the early 1970’s). Mr. Maloney also handled the adoption proceedings when our father adopted his stepdaughter. Joan Wheeler cannot stand that fact and has enlisted Brian T. Maloney in her continued abuse and harassment of her birth family. Arthur also handled legal issues for Ruth in 1976 (landlord/tenant) and in the 1990’s – regarding Joan’s theft of money from Ruth and harassment of Ruth. Arthur was disgusted with Joan’s behavior. We are appalled that the son of a very sweet man (Arthur) is such an abuser and a harasser of the daughters of a friend of his late father. I, Ruth Sippel Pace, in representing the Sippel family, left a message of condolence on the online remembrance book for Arthur. I am shocked and disgusted that in return, I am called a dog by his son.
Gert here…last night I was unable to take care of this post from Karen. I now have figured out why Karen was having difficulty with posting this comment, she was on Brian Maloney/champ’s blog not on mine…and Brian Maloney’s site is difficult to leave comments on…it is not user friendly and of course Brian is not friendly at all.
My daughter’s comments here are from her gut and I will NOT TOLERATE ANYTHING over this reaction. My daughter has wanted to speak her mind TO JOAN WHEELER for quite some time and I have not wanted that because I know how evil and nasty (doesn’t even begin to tell you) Joan Wheeler is. But ever since Joan published that book of lies my daughter has wanted a piece of Joan and then to read some slease ball man named brian maloney take on her MOTHER and AUNT was just too much for my daughter.
Joan Wheeler and Brian Maloney be careful be very careful…now back to what Ruth was saying and what my daughter was saying,…
from Ruth – Karen read the latest hate-speech from Brian T. Maloney against two women he has never met. Knows nothing about except the deranged rambling lies from a socio-path. My neice is upset to hear her mother and her aunt (me) being dragged thru the mud by someone who doesn’t know us, IS NOT A MEMBER OF OUR FAMILY and he needs to stop before criminal and harassment charges are brought to bear against him. Because he is bordering on cyber-bullying, hate speech, character assassination – what he left on The Buffalo News site is bullying and hate speech.
Karen’s computer is acting up – the screen kept bouning up and down as she was trying to write a comment on my latest blog post. I think Karen – one of the problems – and I have noticed it myself – is that when you are typing a long comment on wordpress – after a while, the screen does bounce. That is why it always a good idea to type your stuff out on Notepad first, proof read it, then copy and paste it to the comment box.
Anyway – Karen hit the send button, but it didn’t go thru, so she was able to copy and paste and send it to me and Gert via email. She wanted me to clean it up – but I think I will leave it just the way it is. — In order to see the screen and what she was typing, she typed in caps – and a couple of places, she hit the shift key – which made some of her letters small. lol – I’ve done that too – you’re already typing in caps, why do we need to capitalize the first letter of a sentance? lol – — anyway – here is my neice’s answer – MY NIECE CAN COMMENT ON MY LIFE BECAUSE SHE IS FAMILY – YOU BRIAN ARE NOT A FAMILY MEMBER – GET THE HELL OUT OF MY LIFE. and you and Joan deserve everything that is said here – no cyberbullying, no character assassination, no hate speech intended – this is justifiable anger from someone who is sick and tired of seeing her family being abused and bullied by Joan and some dam stranger!
and now, Karen’s post:
yyou just need to shut the hell up and get your nose out of this…Joanie can’t and won’t stand up to the family by herself and tell us WHY SHE SAID ALL THIS SHIT about US!!!
MY AUNTs and MY MOTHER LOVE ME VERY MUCH! even though we have had our own issues, worked them out and like MOST of this thing called a book is..is Not affiliated with ADOPTION in any way shape or form. uhm…Brian..or Champ or whatever…coward more likely cause you have to hide.. or JOANIE…I don’t give a rats ass at this point..its gone to FAR!! CALL MY FAMILY DOGS! I WOULD LOVE TO SEE WHAT IS IN YOUR CLOSET BRIAN…BEST LOOK BEFORE YOU CONTINUE ON WITH THIS AND BACK OFF,LEAVE MY FAMILY ALONE BOTH OF YOU! YOU JOANIE WHEELER ARE AND NEVER WILL BE A SIPPEL..YOU HAVE ANOTHER FAMILY DEAL WITH IT….GET OVER IT…MOVE ALONG…YOU MIGHT BE HAPPIER IF YOU GAVE UP ON THIS SHIT IN THE PAST.JOANIE IF YOU DIDN’T WRITE ALL THIS CRAP IT WOULDN’T BE A ISSUE!!!! BUT YOU DID AND NOW PAY THE PRICE JOANIE. DID YOU NOT THINK YOU WOULD PISS FAMILY OFF!!!!! WONDER WHY YOU ARE ALONE! WHY NO ONE CARES ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS OR ANYTHING ABOUT YOU..BRIAN SHUT UP..BEFORE YOU EVEN SPEAK TO ME…I ONLY WANT ANSWERS FROM JOANIE..WHY DID YOU DO THIS?? WHY??
YOU HAD NO BUSINESS WRITING ANYTHING LIKE YOU DID ABOUT ME, MY MOM, MY AUNTS, MY GRANDPARENTS ,MY BROTHER OR ANY ONE IN MY FAMILY!!!!! HOW DARE YOU SAY THE DIRTY ROTTEN THINGS ABOUT US???NONE OF IT HAD ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOUR ADOPTION..GET OVER IT ALL READY..MOVE THE FUCK ON WITH LIFE…STOP LIVING IN 1950 WHATEVER…I GREW UP AND TALKED TO MY MOM..UNLIKE YOU,YOU SICK PUPPY..GET THE HELP YOU NEED…WE ALL HAVE GOTTEN OVER THIS SHIT AND LIVE PRODUCTIVE LIVES. UNLIKE YOU WHO HAS NEVER EVER HELD A REALY JOB IN ANY FIELD..AND PLEASE DON’T TELL ME THAT WORKING A VOLUNTRY AT A CRISIS CENTER GIVES YOU THE AUTHORITY TO SPEAK ON ANY SUBJECT LIKE A CASEWORK..YOU JOANIE HAVE NEVER WORKED IN YOUR LIFE…IF YOU HAVE.PLEASE PLEASE POST YOUR RESUME…MY CAN BE FOUND AND I HAVE DONE WELL FOR MYSELF..AND HAVE RESOLVED FAMILY PROBLEMS..YOU CREATED MORE FOR YOURSELF..NOW OWN UP TO IT JOANIE.AND AS FOR ME..i AM THE SANEST IN THE FAMILY ACCORDING TO YOUR DAUGHTER..OO YES I KNOW HER AND SPOKE A FEW TIMES….TO BAD THEY HAD SUCH A HORRIBLE LIFE COMPARED TO MINE….BUT YOU DIDN’T JUST DIDN’T CARE ABOUT YOUR CHILDREN AS MUCH! WrAPED IN YOUR SENSELESS WORLD OF ADOPTION….THEY GREW UP WITH OUT A MOTHER IN EVERY WAY…..HOW SAD FOR THEM. AND NOW YOUR OWN CHILDREN WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU..CAN’T IMAGINE WHY…PSYCHO MOM MAY BURN OUR THINGS AND THE HOUSE DOWN…YOUR OWN WORDS!!
WOW MOM NEVER DID THAT SHIT TO US…YOU REALLY ARE A DAMAGED HUMAN BEING JOANIE…GET MENTAL HELP …..YOU NEED IT..BADLY..AND BEFORE YOU EVEN THINK OF TREADING ON ME OR MY “NEEDING HELP” i HAVE AND DO SEEK HELP WITH MY PROBLEMS…STOP WHINING AND GET OVER YOUR ADOPTION…SO FUCKING WHAT!
ISN’T THERE MORE TO LIFE THEN YOU WASTING YOU TIME LIVING IN THE PAST????HOW DARE YOU INSULT ANY OF US!!!
,YOU UNDESERVING SPOILED ROTTEN LITTLE GIRL, GOTTA HAVE HER TEMPER TANTRUM JOANIE. YOU SHOULD BE GRATEFUL YOU HAD A LIFE…YOU HAD TWO PARENTS TO CARE FOR YOU. YOU DIDN’T END UP IN A GARBAGE CAN OR LEFT ON THE STREET.DID YOU??? .SICK IN THE HEAD AS YOUR AMOM WAS AND UNFORTUNATELY FOR YOU,YOUR JUST LIKE HER, YOUR A PRODUCT OF YOUR UP BRINGING THAT’S WHY YOU CAN’T FIT IN..
THAT’S WHY YOU CAN’T UNDERSTAND OUR BEING INSULTED…HUMILIATED..DEGRADED AND FULL OF HATE OVER THIS BOOK AND WHAT YOU WROTE. GET THE OVER YOURSELF JOANIE..THERE ARE SO MANY OTHERS WITH LIFE WORSE THEN YOU…..GET THE FUCK YOUR SHIT JOANIE…GET OVER THIS BOOK AND FOR THE LOVE OF THE GODDESS JOANIE YOU AND YOUR UNENDING NEED TO BE THE CENTER OF ATTENTION …NEEDS TO STOP AND STOP NOW!!! ARE YOU STILL A 2 YEAR OLD NEEDING ATTENTION?? BAD BAD WAY TO GET IT.
YOU OWN CHILDREN WON’T BE AROUND YOU..I WOULDN’T EITHER IF MY MOM WAS A PSYCHO BITCH LIKE YOU!! GLAD I AT LEAST GREW UP ENOUGH TO GET MY FAMILY THINGS BACK IN ORDER..FAMILY IS ALL YOU HAVE JOANIE..AND YOU DEAR..HAVE NONE..WHY CAUSE YOUR MOUTH AND YOUR BULLSHIT.
MOIRE LATER..I AM JUST SO OUTRAGED AT ALL OF THIS CRAP ANYMORE.
AT LEAST MY AUNTS AND MY MOM CAN AND DO APOLOGIZE FOR WRONG DOING..WE ARE HUMAN AND MAKE MISTAKES..JOANIE HAS MADE SEVERAL AND NOT ANSWERED TO ANY!
Brian – you are NOT a Sippel – You have no business talking shit about any of us. And yeah Brian, – PUNK – pay attention to YOUR miserable life. Because obviously, your life IS miserable that you have to spend your time on the internet flinging shit at women you don’t even know.
OUR blogs have a purpose – to set straight the garbage that Joan puts forth via her book and elsewhere about us. YOUR blog is supposed to defend Joan – instead you use your blog to call women dogs.
But still – dogs are loyal, faithful, save lives, independent yet follow the rules of the pack (FAMILY) – bah bah sheep simply follow – they listen to garbage and do nothing but bleet all day. They are unproductive spineless bah bahs.
But dogs bark – see I don’t bark, and I see my niece doesn’t bark either – we ROAR!
Hear us – We are Women and we ROAR!
Joan and Brian simply bleet – bleet – baaaa baaaaa!
My Zodiac sign is Leo – I am a Lioness – I ROAR! There is no animal more powerful on this earth than a Lioness! A lion is king? no – he just lays around all day and watches the cubs while the Queen of the Jungle – the Lioness hunts – and she will protect her family.
Gert and Karen are not Leos – but they ROAR too. And Lions EAT sheep. – and by the way – there are dogs called sheep herders – the DOGS boss the sheep around! I like being a Lion – and I like dogs. Sheeps like Joan and Brian – I have no use for them.
How true it is that dogs are loyal and protect family. Ain’t it good to know your not a sheep..lol.
I may not be a leo Aunt Ruth..but I am a Scorpio. I am protective and you don’t want to piss me off. I do have a wicked and deadly sting.
JOANIE WHEELER…LEAVE this FAMILY alone! ‘nough said. Do what is right and save face now or I foresee the continuation of a miserable life.
ADDITIONAL note from Gert…I’m Capricorn..the goat …go look that up!