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the ravings of Joan Wheeler; she can’t handle pressure, how can see handle and help others?

by on January 31, 2013

Obviously she can’t! Joan has done this kind of thing before, in the book, on the internet, on forum comments, everywhere. When her adoptive mother had a ‘turn for the worst’ she WENT to my father’s home because she COULDN’T handle her fear of death. Problem was my father TOLD Joan DON’T COME HERE. When ever anything happens to her Joan NEEDS TO GET COMFORT but she runs to the very people she has HURT and then when she calms down she ACCUSES them of harassing her!

The entirely of Joan dead book is filled with this kind of MENTAL DISCUSSION that she has with HERSELF, in her mind, then she puts in down in print, in public formats and she DOESN’T see that she is showing the world her mental state of mind! Okay, if Joan has no problem putting her inner thoughts out in public she CAN’T have a problem with me talking about them! I’m putting out my own take on the tweets.

Below are direct Tweets from Joan’s feed. Because Joan was adopted and had some kind of abuse by the adoptive family she sees this bad thing called adoption happening everywhere to everyone.

Joan believes she is a half orphan because her mother died. News flash…WE all were half orphans when OUR mother died. People die. Joan can not handle death! She is afraid of death! She is in shock! Can’t be on Facebook (why is that important?) If she’s in shock why isn’t she in the hospital getting help? Why is she raving on a public forum? Generational? yes people die every minute of every day…she really needs to get a grip on reality! Sad, sure we all get sad, that’s part of being a human being!

We see how Joan MUST see aunt to tell her…right, this is how Joan operates, she MUST get into another’s life IMMEDIATELY. Then she when she’s there she tell them how to live their lives! When Joan is ALL ALONE, only then DOES Joan feel the need to REACH OUT, to those that she has harmed and then wonders why everyone wants her to get lost. She makes judgments in her head and then when the other doesn’t do what Joan thinks they ought to have done, they are wrong because they didn’t listen to Joan.

She assumes that a child will be placed into adoption, because of a death of a parent. Why does she need to bring MY father and his decisions up here? and assert that she doesn’t blame him? Liar that she is, she did and still does and has written all about her resentments.  She is comparing when there is no comparisons. She is appealing to those who read her tweeter feed, okay, but then she goes off on another rant about the sisters, that’s me and Ruth! Joan tells people to block us, we will use this to cause trouble for Joan! No, Joan is causing the trouble, she is seeing shadows that are NOT THERE. She is creating the division lines, she is telling people what is in HER head NOT what is truth. And the scary part is there are people out there that BELIEVE Joan.

Joan uses this as a platform to promote her agenda that adoption is BAD, that there is no need to adopt, that she should have stayed with family. Okay…so what if she stayed with us! Whom would have taken care of her? She would have ended up in a orphan home!! Joan here is ‘wondering’ if someone will offer adoption to this new widow…what right does Joan have to even suggest this on a public forum! She uses this death as a means to address birth certificates and guardianship and adoption mills.

Then she uses this death to yell and scream at GOD or lack of! How cruel god is, he took her mother! She Joan the only person who lost a mother! Joan REALLY TRULY needs someone to explain to her  that EVEN SHE WILL DIE…that regards whether you believe in a god or not…you will die and she can’t stop that! She ought to be figuring what HER SOUL is going to do when she dies. That is the business of Joan’s…NOT…the rest of our family or other people’s lives. Joan needs to get in touch with her SOUL…before it’s too late…and her friends out there are NOT HELPING HER.

Joan Wheeler ‏@forbiddenfamily That little girl is now a half orphan. Too many, too many.

29 JanJoan Wheeler ‏@forbiddenfamilyCan’t be on Facebook now. Too many deaths since Sept. Very sad. In shock. Another 2nd cousin, adopted fam, died, father of 2 yr old daughtr

29 JanJoan Wheeler ‏@forbiddenfamilyTrauma. Sadness. Generational. Must see Aunt soon to tell her I love her. She does’nt know, would kill her: granddaughter lost husband.

29 JanJoan Wheeler ‏@forbiddenfamilyYes. Another new half orphan. This one will not be given up for adoption. I don’t blame my Dad for giving me up. His wife died.

29 JanJoan Wheeler ‏@forbiddenfamilyPlease pray for Mom who lost her husband Sat morn. She’ll need family around her, her sisters, brothers, now keep her safe. Await memorial.

29 JanJoan Wheeler ‏@forbiddenfamilyWill they butt into this family tradegy? Yes, we are all family. They are not wanted in this family group. My Twitter friends, please pray.

29 JanJoan Wheeler ‏@forbiddenfamilyMy sisters are on Twitter. Blocked them. They will get these Tweets to spread rumors I am causing trouble. Father of new widow avoids them.

29 JanJoan Wheeler ‏@forbiddenfamilyWonder if anyone will suggest to my 2nd cousin that her “4 yr old daughter needs 2 parents” so give her up for adoption?

29 JanJoan Wheeler ‏@forbiddenfamilyRipples…My Aunt, 86, pregnant at same time my Mom was, sees my Mom when she sees me. Dementia now. Doesn’t know about granddaughter’s loss

29 JanJoan Wheeler ‏@forbiddenfamilyRipple effect. My mother died when I was 3 months old. Grievinf father told to give me up for adoption because I “needed 2 parents”. WTF

29 JanJoan Wheeler ‏@forbiddenfamilyToo much trauma. Ripple effect. My daughter, age 26, grieves along side of her cousin. They shared a childhood. Death, loss, nightmares.

29 JanJoan Wheeler ‏@forbiddenfamilyAnother death. Young father killed in car crash, leaving behind wife, age 26, and 4 year old daughter. The wife is my 2nd cousin, by blood.

28 JanJoan Wheeler ‏@forbiddenfamilyFor what purpose is it to remake a child’s birth certificate in adoption? You have new custody..is that enough? Guardianship keeps inline

28 JanJoan Wheeler ‏@forbiddenfamilythere is no god. To take away a child’s father id creul. You took away y mother + gave me new one. Fuk’ed me over. Another one now.

28 JanJoan Wheeler ‏@forbiddenfamilyDeath…you come upon us when we think we know time. You took my mother when I was a babe. Yu took my cousin’s hubby + left a 4 yr old: why

28 JanJoan Wheeler ‏@forbiddenfamilyDeath be not proud! Do not take the widows and the children and make them puppets for the adoption mills! Not one more lost to adoption…

28 JanJoan Wheeler ‏@forbiddenfamilyAs I watch the new half orphans march passed me, I see their tiny faces and think: you have people who will not stand for you to be adopted

28 JanJoan Wheeler ‏@forbiddenfamilyI cannot control my grief. too many deaths. too much loss, too much, too much. There is no reaason.

28 JanJoan Wheeler ‏@forbiddenfamilyI grieve for my 2nd cousin’s husband, dead in car accident. Gone too soon. Wife and child left behind. Momma, like you, they died too soon.

end of this rant…but…she ranted on other issues also…why…because she is a raving mentally ill person, who has NO business in the realm of reform.

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