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One Person at a Time; we, the birth family, are telling our story of how adoption has effected our lives
Joan Wheeler is always accusing us birth siblings of stalking and harassing her; not true. We do monitor and do react when she gets ‘out of line’; for Joan has a very bad nasty habit of slandering us and not telling the entire story or truth. That’s called ‘self- defense’. We do not care about adoption reform, she can do that all she wants. What she CAN NOT do, is lie or slander the birth family or say that we are ‘damaged’ because of adoption!
Here is a good example of Joan’s arrogance! She sees ‘anything’ related to adoption and she’s off and running to comment. Funny thing is that usually, once she posts, there are none or very few responses to her ‘position’. She does tend to make everything into a drama of unseemly proportions.
In January of 2013 she posted, a comment, to a online newspaper. But because no one had commented after her she decided to ‘tweet’ about it in March. She advertised the article and her comment HERSELF, on a PUBLIC SOCIAL NETWORK. I wasn’t looking for anything, it showed up and so I decided to leave my own comment.
The attrocities commited against adoptees for the sake of cover-ups, secrets, lies, and baby-trafficking need to be exposed. One by one we are making our voices heard. One by one we tell of what happened to us. With the knowledge we share with our communities, aand the world, we will make the changes needed so that what happened to us will not happen to other children and their families. Know that your story and your efforts are making a difference. Hope you can find some peace, Joan
Gosh I don’t know what’s worst, atrocities such as cover-ups, secrets, lies against adoptees, as Joan says, or the same atrocities and more against birth families of adoptees by the adoptee! One by one we tell what happened to us!
The story can be seen here…
Joan said in her comment in January “One by one we tell what happened to us!”
Well now, in reading her book and Joan’s online garbage, Gert and I have seen many lies told by Joan about OUR own dam lives! And we have put up our blogs to tell the truth about OUR lives.
One by one we tell what happened to us! Which is our RIGHT to do so. If I want to tell a story about what happened to ME in the third grade, that is MY right. Who gave Joan the right to tell a fabrication about ME and what happened to ME in MY childhood? NOBODY. And since she is going to tell in public LIES about MY childhood, I will tell the truth about MY life.
One by one we tell what happened to us!
UPDATE December 2016; as older posts are being seen I, Gert, am updating with links to my second blog and a Facebook page wherein I expose AGAIN the lies, fabrications and hate that Joan M Wheeler (Doris Michol Sippel) says about me and family. The first book ‘Forbidden Family, A Half Orphan’s Account of Her Adoption, Reunion and Social Activism‘ published in 2009, was pulled from publication by the publisher in May 2011 due to libelous material in it. Then in 2015, she ‘self-published’ a ‘revised’ version calling it ‘Forbidden Family, an adoptee duped by adoption’, being her own editor and owner. This woman has no shame no sense of family honor! Then in 2016 Joan changed her name back to her birth name and reedited and republished the SAME crap in another book; a Third edition! CALLED ‘Forbidden Family: An Adopted Woman’s Struggle for Identity’! Talk about conning people!
https://gertmcqueen2.wordpress.com/ this blog’s title/sub title is… DUPED BY ADOPTION & AN WOMAN’S STRUGGLE FOR IDENTITY, A BOOK STUDY an in-depth analyzes of the books called Forbidden Family; My Life as an Adoptee Duped by adoption & An Adopted Woman’s Struggle for Identity by Joan M Wheeler/Doris M Sippel.
In addition…see the ‘discussion’ forums, on Amazon, for two of the books. The first book has one review and several comments related.
Forbidden Family: My Life as an Adoptee Duped by Adoption forum
Joan Mary Wheeler forum
review of first book and 4 comments