abuser, adoption, age differences between parents and children, alcohol abuse, being downright nasty, birth/adoptive families, blaming people for your own mess, browbeating people over adoption, browbeating to get your own way, bullying, change your life, child abuse, co-dependency, whining, worthlessness, writing from memory
There is help for those with alcoholism & childhood abuse, Joan Wheeler pay attention!
I found a really good interesting post via another blogger friend today. It’s never too later to get an understanding and help.
just in case the link doesn’t work… for this good post
here is the title and other info…I found this post very helpful!
How Did This Happen To Me!
December 9, 2010 by iceman18
FOR THE RECORD…
Joan Wheeler, my birthsibling, who was placed into adoption, found by us when she was 18, who has spend the past 30 years maligning us and causing problems. I have been convinced that she must have been seriously abused as a child…we did not live together…this is my OPINION, but she has exhibited many of the classic signs of abuse victims. Her hatred for the adoptive parents are a give-away.
She also has a history of a drinking problem.
Information is always a good thing…