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#JoanWheeler was ‘scared to death’ when she was ‘found’ by birth siblings??!!

by on October 15, 2014

Update July 2015 see comment at end...but know that Joan M Wheeler, is an adoptee that has been duped by adoption   #dupedbyadoption

What utter bullshit! She always uses the extreme for attention getting! On October 15, 2014 Joan Wheeler says the following in response to a ‘news’ story. My comments follows.

Joan said…

When I received a phone call in 1974 at age 18 from a sister I never knew, I was hit with horrendous panic and anxiety. This was the beginning of my reunion with natural family. Doctors couldn’t help me. I didn’t get the chance to see a psychiatrist for about another 10 years. Even then, no one believed the level of panic I felt. There were many other such incidences due to hate mail and hate phone calls. I developed stress-related illnesses causing me to lose my job. Physical illness does result from being frightened. I’m glad I didn’t die.

Can You Actually Be Scared to Death? – DNews

There’s a common phrase where people claim that they are “scared to death.” Is it possible to actually die from being scared? Trace and Wilson investigate. screen.yahoo.com

Gert here…

On page 3 of her libelous book Forbidden Family…she states…

‘Just two months earlier, on my 18th birthday in January of 1974, I decided to locate the only living blood relative I knew I had, my father…What an uncanny coincidence! While I began a search for my father, my own sister was simultaneously in search of me!… did we read each other’s thoughts?… The manner in which the truth began to unfold was contrary to what I had expected….I struggled to compose myself…’

So…is what she wrote in the TRUTHFUL book Forbidden Family, which was proved to be libelous, TRUE or is what she wrote on Facebook TRUE?

Okay! I can accept that learning about the birth family COULD give her, or anyone, anxiety and that panic could result from the ADOPTIVE PARENTS knowing that she THEN knew the truth of her birth family…but…everything else is JOAN’S DOING! She’s glad she didn’t die! What kind of idiot is she? She’s looking for attention here! … don’t give it to her! She’s again all alone, her last boyfriend just left her and so she’s now on the internet looking for sob stories she can hijack for her own bullshit and attention!

Joan’s life, before being found by birth siblings, was a mess! That is NOT the birth siblings fault! She documents her life of hell with the adoptive parents and their family, that caused her all that panic and anxiety. NOT OUR FAULT. She didn’t need a doctor or a psychiatrist then or now…what she needed was to get the HELL AWAY FROM THE ADOPTIVE PARENTS, she was of AGE, but she NEEDED THEM TO PAY FOR HER EDUCATION AND A PLACE TO LIVE.  But no, she blamed everything on the birth family. Hate mail and phone calls!! We, me and Ruth, have dealt with that on our blogs, for years now. We have documented proof of hate mail that Joan sent to the birth family, we have documented proof of everything that Joan did to the birth family, Joan has NOTHING of proof.

Whatever the causes of her stress related illness she has, which caused her to become disabled, is NOT due to the birth family…but totally caused by her own reactions to EVERYTHING and ANYTHING, and the adoptive parents. She was NOT frightened by me calling her, she was frightened by the words and actions of the adoptive mother! Joan documented all the hell in that book!

If she is so MESSED UP why would ANYONE want her as a SOCIAL WORKER? She may have the degree as one but she never has worked as one and her own words are proof that she is incapable of helping ANYONE.

She’s glad she didn’t die! What an idiot! She’s looking for sympathy and pity. Asshole.

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Gert here…July 2015…someone just took a look at this post and I thought hey…let’s update this one…because some folks may not have seen this before and it’s always a good thing to remember what Joan has said in the past…for it always changes.
Joan has a new e-book out! a re-hash and some ‘new’ changes that she stole from her sisters blogs and some ‘new’ fabrications…nothing new there!
The new book is called ‘Forbidden Family; my life as an adoptee duped by adoption!
She really is creative isn’t she!
stay tuned folks for yet another wide ride as the saga of Joan Wheeler continues

UPDATE Nov 2015  as older posts are being seen I’m updating with links to my second blog and a Facebook page wherein expose AGAIN the lies, fabrications and hate of Joan M Wheeler.

https://gertmcqueen2.wordpress.com/

https://www.facebook.com/dupedbyadoption1

 

 

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2 Comments
  1. Gert here…July 2015…someone just took a look at this post and I thought hey…let’s update this one…because some folks may not have seen this before and it’s always a good thing to remember what Joan has said in the past…for it always changes.
    Joan has a new e-book out! a re-hash and some ‘new’ changes that she stole from her sisters blogs and some ‘new’ fabrications…nothing new there!
    The new book is called ‘Forbidden Family; my life as an adoptee duped by adoption!
    She really is creative isn’t she!
    stay tuned folks for yet another wide ride as the saga of Joan Wheeler continues

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