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#Adoption NEEDS TO BE ERADICATED FROM THE PLANET #flipthescript
…yep that’s what Joan Wheeler’s mission is!
In this post I share two separate stories about how one woman saved children from death; most were adopted and another woman who wants to eradicate adoption on the planet and will do anything to do so!
In response to the topic…Is Adoption Trauma? Joan Wheeler left NO DOUBT about it. Her hatred stems from the two people who adopted her! A much older couple (than birth parents), woman was infertile and possessive and they were Catholic.
It is a personal thing with Joan! Her mission in life! Of course she will FAIL but before she’s done, she’ll just keep on browbeating and insulting and using people.
She doesn’t understand that she is making herself look like a complete idiot as she insults people’s intelligence right and left! Oh sure, she’s part of a group of adoptees that are not only mean but down right malicious. Mainstream adoption reformists, who favor open adoption, are even ATTACKED by Joan. Joan is on the fringe because of her libelous book (pulled in 2011) and because of her outrageous hatred! She been BANNED and sanctioned for her hate speech in a variety of places.
Oh make no mistake here, Joan is serious, this is HER position NO ADOPTION IS ACCEPTABLE. She VIOLATED my parental rights when I was in the process of ADOPTING my own son with second husband. Joan also placed two false child abuse reports on me BECAUSE she BELIEVED we were unfit parents and would not LISTEN to her. She was about 24 and had NO social work degree. She has that now BUT she has NEVER worked as one and would NEVER get a job with her positions on adoption.
So for the millions of infants and children around the world that are orphans and/or are faced with death, via many avenues, Joan could CARE NOT for them! Let them die! Even if they CAN NOT be placed within a (non-workable) guardianship. Joan certainly doesn’t discriminate! She could care whether the children are from death camps or any other camp, including today’s refugees, abroad or at home.
After we hear from Joan…we’ll SEE a TRUE activist that HELPED the world!
I am adding the BOLD in Joan’s words
Joan said: November 23, 2014
I know you are asking questions to learn, and I know what you disclosed to me in private messages. Please understand, adoption needs to be eradicated from the planet. Adoption is nothing more than the possession of a human being. Take away the sealed birth certificate of the adoptee, take away the automatic issuance of an amended (falsified) birth certificate that states this child was born to two parents who did not conceive nor give birth to that child, and what do you have? Guardianship. People who want to adopt do not want to simply be guardians of some one else’s baby. They want to be named as parents in every single way to show that they truly are parents. Can’t just simply give love to a child in need of a home. No. Must possess the child and ignore that two other people created that child. To answer your question, Roger, not all adoptees are aware of how they feel or are aware of the intricate problems that adoption creates for the adoptee and for the natural parents. I know “happy” adoptees. They aren’t happy at all. Just ignorant. Pretty much like the ignorant people who refuse to see science as truth over religion. November 23 at 4:59pm
Joan also said: It is important for non-adopted people, especially infertile people, to understand that infertility is not cured by taking someone else’s child as one’s own. It is a hard pill to swallow, but a far better one to accept that one cannot have children than to expect a child ( who later grows up) to fulfill the role of the adoptive parents’ fantasy. Adoptees have no choice but to accept their lot in life. Infertile people can, and do, often choose not to accept their lot in life by coveting thy neighbor’s child. (Sorry for the bible quote, but it kinda drives home the point). November 23 at 5:11pm
REMEMBER THIS LADY!!!
Look at this lady – Let us never forget!
The world hasn’t just become wicked…it’s always been wicked.
The prize doesn’t always go to the… most deserving.
Irena Sendler Died 12 May 2008 (aged 98) Warsaw, Poland
During WWII, Irena, got permission to work in the Warsaw ghetto, as a plumbing/sewer specialist. She had an ‘ulterior motive’. She KNEW what the Nazi’s plans were for the Jews (being German).
Irena smuggled infants out in the bottom of the tool box she carried and she carried in the back of her truck a burlap sack, (for larger kids).
She also had a dog in the back that she trained to bark when the Nazi soldiers let her in and out of the ghetto. The soldiers of course wanted nothing to do with the dog and the barking covered the kids/infants noises.
During her time of doing this, she managed to smuggle out and save 2500 kids/infants.
She was caught, and the Nazi’s broke both her legs, arms and beat her severely.
Irena kept a record of the names of all the kids she smuggled out and kept them in a glass jar, buried under a tree in her back yard.
After the war, she tried to locate any parents that may have survived it and reunited the family.
Most had been gassed. Those kids she helped got placed into foster family homes or adopted.
Last year Irena was up for the Nobel Peace Prize. She was not selected.
President Obama won one year before becoming President for his work as a community organizer for ACORN and Al Gore won also — for a slide show on Global Warming.
In MEMORIAM – 63 YEARS LATER
I’m doing my small part by forwarding this message.
I hope you’ll consider doing the same…
It is now more than 60 years after the Second World War in Europe ended.
This e-mail is being sent as a memorial chain, in memory of the six million Jews, 20 million Russians, 10 million Christians and 1,900 Catholic priests who were murdered, massacred, raped, burned, starved and humiliated!
Now, more than ever, with Iran, and others, claiming the HOLOCAUST to be ‘a myth’.
It’s imperative to make sure the world never forgets, because there are others who would like to do it again.
And we should NEVER forget the harm that Joan Wheeler is doing to many people in the world that adopt!