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#JoanMWheeler was ‘spared from living in an American orphanage’! Her siblings were NOT as lucky. #flipthescript

by on January 16, 2016

That’s correct a year AFTER she was placed into adoption, due to death of mother, five children (4 birth-children and 1 step-child) were placed in orphan and foster homes due to illness of step-mother. Joan NEVER tells the truth and leaves MUCH vital information OUT. Joan rarely tells about the second marriage of our father and how that second wife REFUSED to take and raise the infant (Joan). There was NO other option but to place the infant (Joan) into adoption. There was NO family to KEEP her in. Our father said, if he could not raise her, NO ONE in the family would!

Her placement in adoption had NOTHING to do with the church or what a priest said or didn’t say. Sure our father sought out advice but the bottom line is; the second wife REFUSED the infant! Joan can NOT accept the fact that our father’s second wife REFUSED to take her!

Joan HATES the Catholic Church and she will take whatever opportunity that comes to her to blame them. She also LOVES melodramatics! She is always on the look-out for any opportunity to pour out those false tears and sentiment.

Joan M Wheeler   · February 10 at 5:30pm

Weeping as I read this. I can’t thank you enough for saying what needs to be said.
I hope that all Christians who want to save an orphan will read this and see the light.
I, as a half orphan, was spared from living in an American orphanage, but not from adoption. My mother died when I was three months old. My father had four older children to take care of and the priest said “the baby needs two parents”. My very religious father gave away his fifth child because he thought he had to. Catholic Charities did not come to him to help him keep his family together. No, the Catholic priest would rather see the baby go to two strangers to adopt than to promote family preservation. This was in 1956 when adoption was becoming popular.

However, many years previously, when my adoptive mother was two years old, her mother died of the Spanish Flu in 1918. Her father had to go to work so he housed his four children in an orphanage and paid for their keep. He told the nuns: “Not a single one of my children will be adopted out.” He visited his children every Sunday.

I applaud the work of the people you mention in this article – the work of an orphanage is to house children until they can be returned to their parents or extended family. Adoption is not necessary at all.

Gert here again…what happens in one family doesn’t necessary mean that it will work in another family! It’s like comparing apples and oranges; both are fruit but very different kinds of fruit. Joan has never learned the basics or that the ‘future’ can NOT be determined.

Everyone MUST make decisions on the spot with conditions of that moment…no one has a crystal ball that will tell them what will happen in the future. For Joan to insist that our father was duped or worst by the church or any of their organizations is JUST one small segment of her own OPINION and has NO VALUE in the reality of the situation.

Her comment Adoption is not necessary at all was also noted by another individual on the thread as NOT a true reality. Joan doesn’t care about that! All Joan wants is to rid the world of adoption!

Well I hate to tell her…that’s NEVER going to happen!

UPDATE December 2016; as older posts are being seen I, Gert, am updating with links to my second blog and a Facebook page wherein I expose AGAIN the lies, fabrications and hate that Joan M Wheeler (Doris Michol Sippel) says about me and family. The first book Forbidden Family, A Half Orphan’s Account of Her Adoption, Reunion and Social Activism published in 2009, was pulled from publication by the publisher in May 2011 due to libelous material in it. Then in 2015, she ‘self-published’ a ‘revised’ version calling it ‘Forbidden Family, an adoptee duped by adoption’, being her own editor and owner. This woman has no shame no sense of family honor! Then in 2016 Joan changed her name back to her birth name and reedited and republished the SAME crap in another book; a Third edition! CALLED ‘Forbidden Family: An Adopted Woman’s Struggle for Identity’! Talk about conning people!     this blog’s title/sub title is… DUPED BY ADOPTION & AN WOMAN’S STRUGGLE FOR IDENTITY, A BOOK STUDY an in-depth analyzes of the books called Forbidden Family; My Life as an Adoptee Duped by adoption & An Adopted Woman’s Struggle for Identity by Joan M Wheeler/Doris M Sippel.




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