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Recalling words of Joan M Wheeler/Doris M Sippel; a look inside her mind!

by on April 14, 2017

This post contains old tweets of Joan/Doris’s back on April 14, 2013. This was the same time of the Boston Marathon bombing. These tweets contain Joan’s advocating the blowing up government offices.

I collected them back then, as I’ve collected many things as they happen, but didn’t get to them because time sometimes moves away from us. The reason I collected them then is because these were Joan’s tweets from an adoption convention that Joan attended wherein she also advocated BLOWING UP GOVERNMENT OFFICES OF VITAL STATICS, to get their attention about false birth certificates. Talk about an American terrorist!

Here are links to posts that covered these events…

https://gertmcqueen.wordpress.com/2013/04/16/joan-wheeler-social-worker-yeah-right-adoptee-rights-activist-says-she-wants-to-blow-up-buildings-what-an-ass/

https://gertmcqueen.wordpress.com/2013/04/14/home-land-security-where-are-you-joan-wheeler-is-threatening-to-blow-up-government-offices/

https://gertmcqueen.wordpress.com/2013/04/13/continuted-false-narratives-of-joan-wheeler-means-she-cant-accept-her-own-negative-actions/

It’s always good to take a closer look at ANYTHING that Joan M Wheeler/Doris M Sippel has said. It doesn’t matter how old the statements are for it shows the inner workings of her diseased mind. You can also see how Joan is addicted to people in the limelight, who has written books, speakers at conferences, etc.; she’s into celebrity. She gets her ideas about her own illnesses from these experts. She then uses the ideas, of what can happen to adoptees, and puts that ‘spin’ on everything she writes and tells about her birth family…most of which are totally false. She creates personalities, of family members, based on her views and what the experts say ‘should’ happen and paints a totally wrong picture of the reality of those people.

Remember when reading the tweets, that they are in reverse order…the newest ones are first, the older last. So the ‘19h’ means that they were written on April 14 before that date was set on Tweeter. They begin on April 9th. So it might be better to read from the bottom of this list, working on up to see the sequence in order of time and the development of her anger.

It is also note-worthy that Joan/Doris has locked down her twitter account; only confirmed followers see her account. Obviously, she knows that her words and deeds are reported on by family members that she wrote lies about! Turn around is fair game! That is why we have blogs and a Facebook page devoted to exposing Joan/Doris’s lies.

And so we begin…
Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily19h
@aac1978 My roommate gave me this great idea for inspired line of #adoptee -centric T-shirts. Design and logo matched her book, awsome

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily19h
I’m turning into a zombie. These 4-5 day conferences are killing me. Dead tired. Hard work. Core people. Dedicated #adoptees #activists

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily19h
@aac1978 to me, simple really: 1 #birthcertificate + 1 #adoptioncertificate equals adoption truth.

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily19h
@aac1978 Yes, this topic makes me mad. I’m not the only one. Hearing one-on-one convos stating hard-line stance, then for compromise on OBCs

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily19h
@aac1978 was it through compromise or did we take a stand for what is right and just?

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily19h
@aac1978 no matter how hard we try, Many #adoptees will never get the truth of their births. So tell me…How did we abolish slavery?…

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily19h
@aac1978 we #adoptees fantasize abt blowing up Vital Statistics Offices. Some adoptees OBCs are filed with false info from maternity homes..

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily19h
@aac1978 I am no longer convinced on the best course of action in #adoptees access to #birthcertficates legislation. We all are pissed so…

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily19h
@aac1978 and after intense dialogue with #DrJoycePavao #RepSaraFeigenholtz and a very stern adoptee saying adoptees will die waiting…

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily19h
@aac1978 #adoptee grumble: Does Compromise legislation work? Look, I stood up for the 47 adoptees who didn’t get their OBCs in Illinois …

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily19h
@aac1978 Book bought: Karen William’s Caring For Self: Handbook of Axioms, Idioms, & Common-Sense Tips. What a night!

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily13 Apr
Playwrites, poets, songwriters, and memoirists and researchers – what a line up here @aac1978 creative as well as #adopted

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily13 Apr
Because time @ conference is limited not checking emails till I get back home.

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily13 Apr
Been working on a writing project for the past 1 1/2 years soon to be released. Been asked to visit #adoptees in NYC; likewise them up home

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily13 Apr
With all the books being written now by #adoptees #naturalparents we are getting the word out the need for change in #socialpolicy and law

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily13 Apr
Pointing out that there are other #adoption Organizations that also work hard for #adoptees rights. #BastardNation #AdoptionCrossroads

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily13 Apr
@aac1978 #adoptees support group just closed for the night. New (closed) facebook group opening. Ask to be let in. Leader has signup

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily13 Apr
@aac1978 Love what #PatrickMcMahon said, “Been writing personal narrative as #adoptee truth that I can’t write fiction.”

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily13 Apr
@aac1978 That’s the thing about these #adoption conferences, we all write books! Love it! I’ve got enough books now to last me sevrl months

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily13 Apr
@aac1978 Book bought: Swimming Up the Sun – A Memoir of Adoption by Nicole J. Burton.  met author on elevator going up to our rooms.

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily12 Apr
@aac1978 So interested now in learning abt interracial adoption. Good to see this being addressed; examination of feelings, social structure

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily12 Apr
@aac1978 I so wanted to do live Tweets during sessions as I did yesterday. Sometimes that’s just not possible.

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily12 Apr
@aac1978 My roommate, #CarolWelsh will be talking about her book tomorrow: 360 Square A Memoir of Adoption and Identity. She’s amazing!

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily12 Apr
@aac1978 fascinating discussions of adoptees’ pain in not knowing; #birthcertificate – sealed and falsified, legislative work around nation

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily12 Apr
@aac1978 Adoption Constellation: natural family, adoptive family, adoptees, social workers, psychologists, lawyers, ministers

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily12 Apr
@aac1978 Conference attendees are the cream of the crop of people in America who gather for knowledge exchange on adoption constellation

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily12 Apr
@aac1978 American Adoption Congress Conference – Body Count: 300 Registered Attendees, Mostly Americans, some Canadians.

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily12 Apr
@aac1978 Bought: DVD: #Resilience A Film by Tammy Chu – abt 4 Chinese born American adopted girls in search and reunion with natural family

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily12 Apr
@aac1978 Bought: CD by #ZaraPhillips You and Me featuring #DMC. DVD: Roots: Unknown – A Film About Adoption, also by Zara Phillips

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily12 Apr
@aac1978 Books bought: #360Square A Memoir of Adoption and Identity by #CarolWelsh #adoptee and #adoptivemother my roommate!

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily12 Apr
@aac1978 Tweeting Live from Cleveland Ohio at the American Adoption Congress Conference – having an informative day.

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily12 Apr
@aac1978 Goodnight all! Keep up the good work! Conference well done.

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily12 Apr
@aac1978 Another full day tomorrow at conference n Cleveland Ohio. New faces old faces. Networkng with #adoptees in #birthcertificate legisl

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily12 Apr
@aac1978 Thrilling to see sisters reunite with joy. #adoptiveparents were supportive of Jennifer to know her big sister #DominiqueMorceanu

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily12 Apr
@aac1978 #DominiqueMorceanu when she was a girl not knowing she was her own big sister – given up because she – Jennifer – had no legs . 2/2

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 Morning Keynote with #DominiqueMoceanu and her lost reunited with sister Jennifer who watched Olympics as a child, idolized   1/2

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@acc1978 Books bought: #OffBalance – A Memoir by #DominiqueMoceanu  USA Olympic gymnast who was found by her full-blood sister adopted out

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 Books bought: #FindingFamily – My Search For Roots and the Secrets in My DNA by #adoptee #RichardHill

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 Books bought: #ClinicalAndPracticeIssuesInAdoption by #VictorGroza and #KarenRosenberg

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 Books bought: #ALegitmateLife A Forbidden Journey of Self-Discovery by my #adoptee pal #MelindaWarsaw edited by #EllenCMaze of #TAM

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 Books bought: #MotherMe An Adopted Woman’s Journey to Motherhood by #ZaraPhillips.

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 Books bought: #BecomingPatrick by adoptee #PatrickMcMahon.#TheAdoptionConstellation by#DrMichaelGrand.

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 Movie: #SomewhereBetween 4 Chinese girls #adopted in USA #HilbbrandWestra @UAI @IbnZayd WOW! Someone I know in this documentary!

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 What a night! Dinner with NYC friend met in Toronto last Oct – dynamite kick-ass activist! Yeah! Love my IRL #adoptees

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 Getting info out is so vital – love social media!

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 FamilyTreeDNA does not test for medical assessment

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 critical mass in Jewish, Irish, Eastern Europe, Scottish – will create match

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 is there a Holocost DNA database? Not a funded program. Expanded version of paternity test, didn’t get off the ground

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 GenMatch do com is another #DNA matching for genetic family testing

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 FamilyTreeDNA accept flat test into their system from 23andMe. sure fire way is to test with both companies

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 hearing aid and toothbrush are good to test for degraded #DNA

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 Love this #DNA #genealogy How do you know that they do the test? Honest in cheek scraping – only those interested in truth

oan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 surname in common – genealogy – name and genes – triangulate relationship or prove how close the relationship is

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 which cheek? DNA testing scrape? Fun and entertaining make this serious topic #geneticgenealogist

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 National Geographic Human Migration project…As an adoptee (me) I can say that with current + past Sperm and Egg donation invalid

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 Finding Family these things are intensly personal. Also Population Finder

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 can lead to heartbreak for adoptees if father or mother doesn’t want to meet @adoptee after DNA testing

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 #operationbabylift Vietnam #DNA testing #FamilyTreeDNA

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 Laws of science is DNA cannot be changed cannot be disputed: reality

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 #DNA Now everyone can play – no longer female or male line. shows how much DNA we have in common

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 what’s special abt FamilyFinder? Determine degree of relationship. cousin, half sibs, make contact with matches. good 4 adoptees

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 Richard Hill’s book Finding Family DNA mother gave up baby. Richard didn’t know he was adopted, parents didn’t tell him

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 autosomal DNA to make family tree – half from mother and half from father. brother and sisters are complete overlaps.

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 mitochondrial DNA do the full test of molecule to find out ancestors – prove ethnicity prove continent origins

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 DNA relatedness living in geographic locations. reading the history book that’s written into your cells: undeniable truth

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 Back to DNA testing…lecture very knowledgeable. love this. ancestors..blood line. evidence.

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 Remembering #BettyJeanLifton #AnnetteBaron #ReubenPanor #KenWatson #JeanPaton #CarollAndersen RIP

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 Wish I’d been involved with AAC since 1978 – but my first con was 1987 where I met #DrReneHoksbergen wonderful friend, mentor

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 or could it be NYC at an ALMA meeting in 1975? 1976? Met in person activist #PeterFranklin partner in online activism!

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 Seeing faces I’ve not seen in 11 years. A few have been steady friends, many long-time activists. #PamHasegawa know her since 1980

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 It’s been 11 years since I’ve been able to be here at a Conference. Succumbed to stress-related illness in 2002. Glad to be here!

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 great humor here: Genetic Genealogy lecture. Who will win FamilyTreeDNA test?

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 YES! Ron Nydam is Alive! Photo and autograph from a man who can’t write well due to illness. Bless you Ron!

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 why are you testing DNA? Have a goal. Think twice before you test. oops it’s Family Tree  DNA

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 ABC’s of Genetic Genealogy. Bennett Greenspan #23andMe

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 #attachment relationships can be positive vs negative, takes work to be in relationships. #secure degree of predictability: be calm

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 we are prisoners unless we take steps to change our own personal narratives #adoptees can deflect others’ misperceptions of them

oan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 skillful dancers may help you overcome in #adoption #adoptees have normal reactions to abnormal stress of their situation

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 stop thinking of winners vs losers – we can change public perception of #adoption #MichealGrand No need for #stigma

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 #savior I won the kid you lost the kid – is a set-up for disaster. don’t do it. winners vs losers: NO everyone’s in the game

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 #education is really the key: all in #adoption need better education. Helping people through rough moments.

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 #adoptiveparent education must go through life cycle, same with #birthparents and family members of both families

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 Validate #adoptees experiences, no shame, educating a-parents, educating natural family. #MichaelGrand

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 it is time for #adoptees to stop apologizing! #MichaelGrand #TheAdoptinConstellation – book. Stop condemnation of #adoptees

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 We need Open Records – give #adoptees what is theirs! #MichaelGrand

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 shame comes from other people’s evaluation of #adoptees and this no longer needs to be accepted

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 #adoptees find ways of leading authentic lives. take back our own lives

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 shame resilience builds authentic self for #adoptees feel safe in relationships. people love you with all your flaws -build strong

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 #adoptees feel abandoned for being given up for adoption. “give up” is not a positive place. end up with personal narrative: shame

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 being disengaged from self means being same with others – inside feel unreal and shamed, can’t be real self.

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 when #adoptees feel shame then experience of #adoption is negative. Manage shame by taking on inauthentic self to fit in, fear

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 shame is the intense feeling of unworthy of love and belonging. #adoptees #MichaelGrand – not smart enough, not good enough

oan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 Openness in adoption vs closed attitudes lead to healthy relationships. Acceptance in the wider family

oan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 any #adoptivefamily who does not show #empathy towards #birthfamily will lead to failure. do not attack adoptee’s DNA.

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 empathetic attunement to adoptee’s needs. Validation of #adoptees emotions . Acknowledgment of Difference: H David Kirk 1965

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 Someone in the world shows up for me every week: #adoptees need someone to show up. Aparents need to show up = self esteem

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 #adoptees – do I belong in this family? I was with that family and now here, so I belong?

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 adoptive parents need to be present in their adoptees lives. emotionally regulated vs disregulated.

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 Parental Context Affecting Attachment – being present vs being absent as a parent. Mindfulness. Experiencial avoidance

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 adoptive family life effects adoptee. Conceptual Relationships – directional trajectory – can’t predict. Context changes.

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 Genetic endowment + pre-adoptive experience: adoption outcome. Research shows prental experiences effect adoptee. cortosol levels

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 #adoptees are victims. Piaget, Freud. Does the past predict the future? Michael Grand -Variations of patterns – present alternative

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
@aac1978 Deep pain of loss in adoption felt by #adoptees -talk by Micheal Grand . Bonding begins in utero. Biorhythms

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr
– Dept of Psych-Univ of Guelph -Michael Grand – Understanding Adoption as Authentic Adoptive Self. Workshop. Here we go….

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily11 Apr Tweeting LIVE from @AAC1978 !!! Re-connecting with old and dear friends!

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily10 Apr
So, I have a few #cousins adoptive and natural – blood kin. Family who understand and care. Off to @AAC1978 now to gather with like minds!

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily10 Apr
As for any members of my #naturalfamily attending any conferences, reading books, discussing #adoption – no, no cooperation there.

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily10 Apr
But I never held it against my #naturalfather for giving me up. I knew he was in impossible situation. I told him not to worry.

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily10 Apr
On the contrary, only my #naturalfather talked with me about #adoption – he opened up freely abt his side of relinquishment, felt guilty

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily10 Apr
When #adoptiveparents open their minds to listen to their #adoptees – communication improves. Mom supported our efforts after yrs of arguing

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily10 Apr
My #adoptivemother cried when #SenatorPaulaBenoit was on TV a few yrs ago abt #MaineAdopteeAccessLaw Mom finally understood #adoptees truth

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily10 Apr
My #adoptivemother learned quit a bit about #adoption over the years. We discussed #surrogacy #sealedrecords #MaineAdopteesAccess

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily10 Apr
My #adoptivefather apologized for lying about the truth of my life. He died 8 years after my #reunion My #adoptivemother died 37 yrs later

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily10 Apr
Funny thing about #adoption, when I asked my #adoptiveparents to attend local support group meetings, they said no. Read any books? No.

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily10 Apr
I’m especially going to hug Ron Nydam – dear friend, mentor; battle with illness, he’s alive!! His book: Adoptees Come of Age. @AAC1978

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily10 Apr
So, all that research I did on The Hague Convention and United Nations – will talk it all out at @AAC1978 – great to be w/like-minded folks

oan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily10 Apr
@TheWickedOne666 Finally! PC tech was here, recovered data, lost open docs. Printer/scanner too old. Learning new OS. NOT what I need now..

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily10 Apr
@EtskyConsulting @aac1978 Thanks Etta! I’m delayed so’ll miss your talk today. Want to connect with you about The Hague Convention, imprtant

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily9 Apr
@7rin Don’t get me wrong, following L’s unfollows was a numbrs game, not a who’s-who. He’s a neat pal IRL. HE got me on Twitter!

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily9 Apr
#AAC is where I met all the great leaders of the #adoptees movement in years past. Getting back to live meetings.

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily9 Apr
@SherrieEldridge will you be at AAC con? I’ll bring your book – 20 Life Transforming Choices Adoptees Need to Make! Would love to meet you.
Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily9 Apr
Heh! I just Unfollowed Just UnFollow! Signed up as it was fun to follow a friend’s unfollows, but, really, just another game.

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily9 Apr
Great to have relatives coming over tonight. Cousins who are dear to me. Helping around the house, planning for warm weather.

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily9 Apr
When I get back, I’ll be re-visiting conversations left from when I lost my PC. Busy right now planning trip.

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily9 Apr
Great week ahead with adoption friends at conference.Perhaps I’ll be seeing many of you there at #AmericanAdoptionCongress !!!

Joan Wheeler?@forbiddenfamily9 Apr
Week from hell! Computer broke. Everything gone. Harddrive fried. Backup disk too. Starting from scratch with new PC bought with loan.

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  1. Reblogged this on duped by adoption & an woman's Struggle for Identity, a book study and commented:

    never forget what she has said…this is a sick sick mind

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