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Joan M Wheeler/Doris M Sippel has found another avenue to sell her lying book!

and yet MORE of her exploiting the family for her own fame and fortune.

duped by adoption & an woman's Struggle for Identity, a book study

Apparently, sales have NOT been good! How could they be? Who wants to spend money on this idiot’s life? It’s common knowledge that her book is garbage and untrue!

Where’s that OTHER book she was going to publish a YEAR ago, the one with OTHER adoptees? Guess she didn’t get any takers for that! Nope she needs to get out of the book writing selling business!

Before long we will find Joan/Doris standing on street corners hawking her book!

Mainstream adoption reformers DON’T list her book on their book lists; they know that her books are NOT going to help the reform movement and they don’t want to be associated with her when the FAMILY (me) exposes them. And expose I will do!

So she’s found another way! Seen on Facebook…

Adoptee Voices Promotions

https://www.facebook.com/groups/321987731251995/

Under items for sale, we find

Forbidden Family: An Adopted Woman’s Struggle for Identity.

€9…

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Joan M Wheeler/Doris M Sippel continues to lie about ‘what really happened’ as to her being placed into adoption

As usual Joan/Doris seeks out any and all opportunities to spread her falsehoods, about how she was placed into adoption. And of course I take that opportunity to present the TRUTH of that matter. She also uses ANY opportunity to spread her agenda of anti-adoption! It’s appalling that she continues to exploit OUR PARENTS! Some day, she will be on HER death bed and will feel the FULL WEIGHT OF HER LIES.

As is the prerogative of any blog owner, they do not have to publish each and every comment. Such is the case here, with my reply; when I submitted my reply it was placed in ‘moderation’ and within an hour it was ‘gone’…that’s the way it is in the world of blogs and comments. And because I have a blog or two of my own…I can blog about the entire thing!

I’m NOT presenting the entire blog or comments, just Joan/Doris and my own. Joan/Doris reblogged it on her own blog.

https://forbiddenfamily.com/2017/07/04/the-call-to-adopt-christians-and-adoption/

https://bleedingheartsadoption.wordpress.com/2017/06/06/the-call-to-adopt-christians-and-adoption/

TAKE NOTE of how Joan/Doris browbeats, insults and condemns, whom she is speaking to.

legitimatebastard on July 4, 2017 at 4:34 pm said:

 

Heather, I am a half orphan. My mother died and my father was widowed with 5 children.

Before I tell you my story, let me say that I occasionally write under the nickname of “halforphan56” but more recently chose to go with “legitimatebastard” because it is adoption law that governs what happens to the adoptee’s identity papers. The orphan and the bastard both are re-born to the adopting “parents” via the new, amended birth certificate. Laws were written to legitimize the bastard, but I did not need to be legitimize since I was born to married parents.

You claim “your son” needed to be adopted. Not so. Other family members could have been helped to keep him within his extended family. That is called Kinship Care. But since you insisted upon removing him form his home country, you took him away from his culture and language as well. That is cruel.

Legal guardianship within the home country and city would have been the next possible solution for this boy. But you chose to make him “your own” via adoption. You have ownership papers in the form of the adoption decree and his accurate medical record of live birth was revoked and sealed, and a replacement birth certificate was made indicating that you gave birth to him. How does it feel to be a Christian who lies?

Nothing you say convinces me that adoption was best for this boy. There are other alternatives, but you assume it is adoption as the answer. Because you are not aware of other alternatives.

Here is my situation. Again, an adoption was not necessary for me, a half orphan:

James 1:27 “…. to look after the orphans and widows in their distress …”

I never held it against my 31 year old father for making the hard decision to relinquish me into adoption less than one month after my 30 year old mother died. He was a devout Catholic and followed the advice of his parish priest.

It is the PRIEST who I fault. He said to my father at my mother’s funeral, “The baby needs two parents.” Sure, if you look only at the constant care of an infant, but wouldn’t it have been so much more loving, so much more caring and helpful if the PRIEST had offered help in the form of suggesting that volunteers from the church come in and help to care for me and my older siblings? How about donations of food, clothes, diapers, money? My grandparents were sick. Other family members had babies of their own. My father was stretched to the limit. He gave away his 5th child because a PRIEST put the idea in his head.

Oh, and, minutes after the priest spoke, a woman came up to my father and said, “I know someone who will take your baby.”

Her brother became my adoptive father.

Nice going, lady. Swoop down on a grieving husband and father. Take the baby off his hands, free up one more child that he didn’t need to feed so that you could pride yourself on procuring someone else’s baby for your brother. Nice going, Aunt Gertie, mighty Christian of you. May you rot in hell along with that priest.

This is not to say I didn’t love my adoptive parents, this is to say that my adoption was arranged by Catholics who were anything but Christian. I remain, and always will be, a “good without god” atheist; how I became adopted is just one of many reasons that I am no longer “a believer.”

 

And Gert’s comment that didn’t get approval…

What ‘really’ happened…

Wife was placed in hospital on drugs to ‘hold’ pregnancy and complete bed rest. Ten days AFTER she gave birth to her 5th child, in her hospital bed, the mother had exploring surgery; it was found she had terminal cancer.

Husband and wife spoke about what to do about the children being cared for by elderly grandparents and relatives. Infant was placed temporary with relatives. The father never bonded with infant.

With dying wife permission, husband proposed a marriage of convenience to a woman they knew that had two fatherless children. This ‘marriage’ would have given his 5 and her 2 children two parents…but…the second wife REFUSED to accept the infant. Some relatives wanted to ‘adopt’ the infant, but the father said, ‘if I can’t raise her no one else in the family will’.

The day his wife died, in his mind, his 5th child died as well; that was how he was able to give her up into adoption. Shirt-tale relatives KNEW of a couple that wanted a child, simple as that! There was NO involvement with anyone from any religion, nor was this discussed at his wife funeral.

Three months after his wife died, he remarried to provide for 6 children as he proceeded with the adoption of child #5; out of sight, out of mind!

The adopted out child had a stable two-parent home. Her siblings did NOT.

Due to long-term hospitalization of the second wife, one year after DEATH of mother, 4 LITTLE children, were placed into orphan & foster homes!

 

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Dead people can’t and don’t speak! But Joan M Wheeler/Doris M Sippel continues to exploit our DEAD mother and father!

more BS crap from this idiot

Source: Dead people can’t and don’t speak! But Joan M Wheeler/Doris M Sippel continues to exploit our DEAD mother and father!

I am supposed to be a secret since I’m adopted

This is pure exploitation of two families! By an individual who just doesn’t GET IT or GET A LIFE.

She’s ADOPTED and doesn’t like that and the laws that govern ADOPTION won’t give her what she wants. Well she HAS her original document and she EXPLOITS it and MY PARENTS because she NEEDS the attention! She doesn’t give a damn about any ONE else in OUR FAMILY, whether any of us alive today and for generations to come, have any feeling for being exploited by this woman!

Not only has this adoptee written lies in three versions of the same ‘book’, but she continues to lie, fabricate, discuss, and exploit, for her own FAME, people that had the MISFORTUNE of being her parents and siblings!

Her outrage and explanations of ‘her’ birth circumstances will NOT alter the minds of the law-makers.

She is and has been WASTING the LIFE that she has! She ought to give THANKS for our parents for their part in creating HER LIFE and stop exploiting them because mother DIED and father HAD NO OPTION BUT TO ADOPT HER OUT.

So as long as this adoptee continues to exploit and expose MY PARENTS I shall continue to expose this adoptee!

 

Source: I am supposed to be a secret since I’m adopted

ONE YEAR AGO TODAY

What a difference a year makes!

check out my post on   https://gertmcqueen2.wordpress.com/

Source: ONE YEAR AGO TODAY

100 posts! WOW

 

Congratulations on writing 100 posts on duped by adoption & an woman’s Struggle for Identity, a book study!

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Caring for the elderly; another topic by expert Joan M Wheeler/Doris M Sippel on #adoption (6 of 6)

Here is the last in a series of rants by Joan/Doris to poor ‘John’. Does this woman have any other life? Apparently not for, as noted, these rants were before her great non-book, Forbidden Family, was published. During all of 2009 she was ‘rewriting and rewriting’ finally having the book appear in November 2009. The book was pulled from publication by the publisher in May of 2011 after their lawyers deemed that she violated the contract; the book contained libel and other nasty stuff.

Here are the links to the previous posts…

https://gertmcqueen.wordpress.com/2017/02/01/browbeating-and-insults-abound-as-joan-m-wheelerdoris-m-sippel-is-unable-to-control-herself-1-of-6/

https://gertmcqueen.wordpress.com/2017/02/23/dangerous-combination-for-adoptees-when-joan-m-wheelerdoris-m-sippel-believes-her-own-bs-as-she-slanderslibels-others-2-of-6/

https://gertmcqueen.wordpress.com/2017/03/04/dont-take-that-bone-of-contention-away-from-mad-dog-joan-m-wheelerdoris-m-sippel-3-of-6/

https://gertmcqueen.wordpress.com/2017/04/02/joan-m-wheelerdoris-m-sippel-tells-us-why-she-became-hateful-about-adoption-4-of-6/

https://gertmcqueen.wordpress.com/2017/05/27/devastating-effects-thats-what-joanmwheelerdorismsippel-tells-john-in-todays-adoption-lesson-5-of-6/

BUT before we go any further I want to share

I’m updating with links to my second blog and a Facebook page wherein I expose AGAIN the lies, fabrications and hate that Joan M Wheeler (Doris Michol Sippel) says about me and family. The first book Forbidden Family, A Half Orphan’s Account of Her Adoption, Reunion and Social Activism‘ was published in 2009 but then was pulled from publication by the publisher in May 2011, for libelous material within the book. Then in 2015, she ‘self-published’ a ‘revised’ version calling it ‘Forbidden Family, an adoptee duped by adoption’. This woman has no shame no sense of family honor! Then in 2016 Joan changed her name back to her birth name and rewrote and republished the SAME crap in another book; a Third edition! CALLED ‘Forbidden Family: An Adopted Woman’s Struggle for Identity’! Talk about conning people!

https://gertmcqueen.wordpress.com/   this blog is titled Reclaiming the Sippel-Herr Family Honor

https://gertmcqueen2.wordpress.com/

this blog’s title/sub title is… DUPED BY ADOPTION & AN WOMAN’S STRUGGLE FOR IDENTITY, A BOOK STUDY an in-depth analyzes of the books called Forbidden Family; My Life as an Adoptee Duped by adoption & An Adopted Woman’s Struggle for Identity by Joan M Wheeler/Doris M Sippel.

also see this Facebook page…

https://www.facebook.com/dupedbyadoptionStruggleforIdentity1/

do check us out and now to continue…

So to answer my own question…NO Joan has no other life except to argue and hate all things adoption.

The following comes from a blot post that UNFORTUNATELY is no longer available to view!  http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/jan-2009/lisas/ready-set-sign

Submitted by half-orphan on Tue, 01/06/2009 – 15:49.

Joan said…John, you must realize that my adoptive parents were the only parents I conciously knew for the first 18 years of my life. The first five years were untold of adoption. Somewhere between 5, 7, 9 or ten, I was told three different stories of why I was adopted. And yes, it was a shock to hear that another woman gave birth to me. The disclosure was done in a cold way, not at all in a loving way. I was left alone to think about it. It left me feeling sad and alone.

Gert comments…Hate to break it to you, Joan, or anyone else, you are NOT the only person who was ever ‘left in the dark’ about your life’s origins or any other of life’s many mysteries. For example, no one explained to me what would happen to my body when I went into puberty or any other aspect of life (physical and emotional). That’s just the ‘way it was/is’. I learned to ‘just move on’. That doesn’t mean I didn’t have ‘feelings’. It just means that I am NOT my emotions and do NOT live my life via my feelings or emotions.

Joan said…A child grows up loving and interacting with the family that raises that child. Love, affection good times, and sorow happened. Many relatives died, funerals, weddings, and graduations and gatherings…church, school, all normal. That does not get whiped out of existance just because of a reunion.

Gert comments…Joan seems to think she’s the ONLY person who ever grew up with family members that were cruel and heartless. That’s the only explanation I get from her constant streams of rehashing how her adoptive extended family behaved towards her. Joan’s constant focus on ‘her’ life, also, over-shadowed her own children’s lives. They were mentally, emotionally and physically abused by Joan. She documented it in that book, which she said was a ‘true account’. If so…or not…why tell the horrors she DID to her own children?

Joan said…My adoptive mother is nearing her 94rd birthday. She cannot be left alone as she cannot walk very well. She is dying of a blood cancer, a form of leukemia. She has other medical issues as well. I am her only daughter, so I am her health care proxy. Mom’s only sister is far more sick than Mom is. And her brothers died many years ago. Just a handfull of relatives coem by to help once in a while, but mostly, it is me taking Mom to hospitals.

Gert comments…Joan has LIVED with the adoptive mother, in the same house, for MOST of her life! So why is Joan complaining that it was up to her to care for the elderly mother? Joan never bothered to care whether she was a burden to the mother all those years! Truth is Joan took advantage of the mother! And in her old-age illness, is (was)being exploited by Joan, for Joan’s OWN personal pity-party! And Joan/Doris still lives in that same house!

Joan said…My natural father had open heart surgery just before Christmas 2003. He recovered, but needs medical care. His 3rd wife, my stepmother, had a stroke a few years ago. For several years, I shared taking care of them with my two step sisters. But within this past year, I had to bow out. Since Dad has other adult children, he has others to help, including my full blood sisters and half brother. But they are not much help, my step sisters do most of the work. I did, too, but now I have to give more to take care of my Mother.

Gert comments…And here we see, yet again, how Joan lies and misrepresents TRUE facts. Joan NEVER shared taking care of Dad. Joan VOLUNTEERED to drive him to doctor appointments and take step-mother to get groceries. Volunteering does not mean YOU get to make the rules!

Joan doesn’t tell what she did to ‘these elderly parents’. Joan would put items she wanted in the grocery cart and the step-mother would pay for them, not realizing it until after they left the store and Joan took her items saying she’d pay later for them but never did.

Joan DEMANDED my father pay for her car repairs! When Dad told her he’s not responsible for her car repairs she argued with him to the point where he told her he ‘doesn’t need her help and that she should ‘call before coming over’; in other words Dad didn’t want her there and that’s why she ‘bowed out’. Joan never tells the entire truth, only her view of it!

What and how the ‘other’ children gave to our parents is none of Joan’s business nor concern. She volunteered, no one had a gun to her head.

Joan said…And when my father went in for his surgery, my adoptive Mom was very concerned. She prayed for him and his recovery. We went to visit him. And my step sister helped me learn how to test Mom’s blood when she needed blood sugar tests for a period of time.

Gert comments…well I have no knowledge of this. One of our step-sisters is a nurse and so it is possible that she helped Joan. It also was this same step-sister who was health-care proxy and primary care-giver to my father and step-mother, her mother. Joan NEVER tells the entire truth of a situation.

Joan said…So, you see, John, while I do have anger and resentment at the way my adoptive parents handled disclosing or not disclosing the truth to me, and at the way I was treated for the past 35 years of reunion and as an activist, I can still be compassionate toward my adoptive mother.

Gert comments.. ‘compassion’ is NOT in Joan nature! There was NO compassion, given, to anyone whom she wrote about in that libelous book. She wrote the book to ‘get back at everyone for her being adopted’. Joan needed to ‘keep’ the adoptive mother AT HOME under her care, so when the woman died Joan would get the house! Joan refused to consider placing her mother in a nursing home solely because of the HOUSE. My father suggested to Joan that she should move in an apartment, which happened to be in the same complex where my father lived. But, Joan refused because she believed that she would be ‘under the thumb of father and then would have to take care of him’; she wrote all about that in that book! Joan still lives in that house, long since the adoptive mother died and Joan is constantly LOOKING for someone, a sugar-daddy, to help her.

Joan said…I am hateful and bitter at society’s myths and taboos about adoption and all that was put upon me by otehrs. Had I been left alone to deal with my reunion between myself, my siblings, and my two sets of parents, the reunion would have been much smoother.

Gert comments…If her hatred is related to ‘society’ then why did she violate my parental rights when I decided to adopt? Oh, you don’t know about that! She was in her 20’s, without a social worker degree, when she DECIDED that I was wrong for adopting, with my 2nd husband, my son! She called me unfit, told my minor children they did not have to listen to me, and called false child abuse reports on me, twice!

What she is saying here is NOT correct, she isn’t ‘hateful and bitter’ at society, but at the extended adoptive family members, who would NOT leave her alone.

Joan said…None of this should have happened the way it did.

Gert comments… Well funny thing about life…it HAPPENS as it happens and we just have to live with the cards we were given and make the best of it. This is what Joan has never learned! That is why she is so hateful and bitter and angry…because her life is not what she wanted.

And so she continues on and on…and so shall I.

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Devastating effects?! That’s what JoanMWheeler/DorisMSippel tells ‘John’ in today’s #adoption lesson (5 of 6)

Joan/Doris says that adoptive parents NEED a wake up call! Let’s rephrase that statement. Joan/Doris NEEDS a wake up call!

The following ranting can be found via this link…

http://ouradopt.com/adoption-blog/jan-2009/lisas/ready-set-sign

unfortunately this site is no longer available

here’s a list of the previous blogs on this ONE rant of her’s

https://gertmcqueen.wordpress.com/2017/02/01/browbeating-and-insults-abound-as-joan-m-wheelerdoris-m-sippel-is-unable-to-control-herself-1-of-6/

https://gertmcqueen.wordpress.com/2017/02/23/dangerous-combination-for-adoptees-when-joan-m-wheelerdoris-m-sippel-believes-her-own-bs-as-she-slanderslibels-others-2-of-6/

https://gertmcqueen.wordpress.com/2017/03/04/dont-take-that-bone-of-contention-away-from-mad-dog-joan-m-wheelerdoris-m-sippel-3-of-6/

https://gertmcqueen.wordpress.com/2017/04/02/joan-m-wheelerdoris-m-sippel-tells-us-why-she-became-hateful-about-adoption-4-of-6/

https://gertmcqueen.wordpress.com/2017/06/09/caring-for-the-elderly-another-topic-by-expert-joan-m-wheelerdoris-m-sippel-on-adoption-6-of-6/

BUT before we go any further I want to share

I’m updating with links to my second blog and a Facebook page wherein I expose AGAIN the lies, fabrications and hate that Joan M Wheeler (Doris Michol Sippel) says about me and family. The first book Forbidden Family, A Half Orphan’s Account of Her Adoption, Reunion and Social Activism‘ was published in 2009 but then was pulled from publication by the publisher in May 2011, for libelous material within the book. Then in 2015, she ‘self-published’ a ‘revised’ version calling it ‘Forbidden Family, an adoptee duped by adoption’. This woman has no shame no sense of family honor! Then in 2016 Joan changed her name back to her birth name and rewrote and republished the SAME crap in another book; a Third edition! CALLED ‘Forbidden Family: An Adopted Woman’s Struggle for Identity’! Talk about conning people!

https://gertmcqueen.wordpress.com/   this blog is titled Reclaiming the Sippel-Herr Family Honor

https://gertmcqueen2.wordpress.com/

this blog’s title/sub title is… DUPED BY ADOPTION & AN WOMAN’S STRUGGLE FOR IDENTITY, A BOOK STUDY an in-depth analyzes of the books called Forbidden Family; My Life as an Adoptee Duped by adoption & An Adopted Woman’s Struggle for Identity by Joan M Wheeler/Doris M Sippel.

also see this Facebook page…

https://www.facebook.com/dupedbyadoptionStruggleforIdentity1/

do check us out and now to continue…

Here Joan is using her ‘half-orphan’ name. My comments follow each paragraph of Joan’s.

Today’s adoption lesson is on … Submitted by half-orphan on Tue, 01/06/2009 – 02:10.

Joan said… the topic of the devastating effects of separating siblings!

Gert comments… she BELIEVES that we siblings have been damaged by HER adoption! That’s a bunch of bullshit! She has USED the birth family as hostages for her wrong-headed views of and about adoption. Her argument is one-sided and tainted with her misguided logic. She has slandered and libeled everyone in both birth and adoptive families. She should never be trusted!

Joan said…This is for John, and other adoptive parents who need a wake-up call. No baby, no child comes to you “a blank slate.” Each baby is born with memories of mother’s womb… her heartbeat, her voice, and birth brings smells, tastes, sounds, and sight. A baby knows…from inside, a baby can hear voices that are around. Father, siblings, other people. Music. When that baby is taken away, the resulting trauma is deep, and causes lifelong pain.

Gert comments…Yes Joan continues to browbeat poor John! Joan ‘speaks’ with false authority, which comes from reading too many books, on one topic, and identifying with each and every ‘condition’. Now I don’t totally dismiss the reality of this particular position of ‘blank slate’ BUT I do question Joan’s use of it. In that libelous book Joan went into great fictional details about HOW she remembered what her SIBLINGS were doing while Joan was in the WOMB. Unfortunately it was all made up, her tales were lies and fabrications! Just BECAUSE she believes it happened doesn’t mean it did. Joan ‘read’ about it in a book and therefore she wrote about her ‘experience’. Joan is into DRAMA and what her ‘inner self’ tells her. There is a very small amount of people who can ‘recall’ the womb. Joan is not one of them!

Joan said…For me, not only did I feel that loss, but my siblings did, too. Their ages were 9, 8, 6, and 3 when I was born and when Mom died. Those kids were helpless! In our separate ways, we’ve dealt with it all…one even ran away in her early 20s to another country! One sister got pregnant at age 17 to leave home, another was so emotionally distraught that she was hospitalized for several months. Our older brother ran off to join the military. We each did our time with drugs, drink, carelessness…And they held onto the thought that one day, they would find me.

Gert comments… Here are several lies! And she’s putting these lies on the internet without our permission or knowledge LONG before the book was published.

All kids are helpless for they all depend on others to care for them. But we were NOT helpless, we had family taking care of us. Joan’s separation and adoption did NOT harm us. What did was the hospitalization of our step-mother a couple of years AFTER our mother died!

Sibling that went to another country did NOT ran away! It was a carefully researched and a planned commitment that took YEARS to develop and was done as an ADULT, free to make own life decisions.

Sibling (me) got pregnant at 18, graduated from high school and got MARRIED NOT to leave home but to have my own home/family. I gave birth at ages 19 and 20. I was NOT living at home to begin with. I had been in foster care for 8 years and was of legal age when I graduated from HS and began my own life.

No sibling was hospitalized for several months, for any reason.

Sibling who went into the Marine Corp did NOT run off, but did so by personal choice and with the then ‘buddy’ system and with full support of our father! It was during the Vietnam War when there was an ACTIVE DRAFT. Hardly running away!

And Joan has this slander about her birth siblings; that we spend ‘time with drugs, drink, carelessness’ just who does she think she is portraying OTHER PEOPLE THIS WAY! She DOES NOT get the right to say that about us with immunity. How would you, the reader of this, feel is someone wrote all these things about YOU?

Everything Joan says about the birth family are lies!

And IF they were true…what right does Joan have for speaking about them? She doesn’t! She has her VIEW and she doesn’t care HOW it affects others. This is why that book she wrote is LIBELOUS and got pulled from publication. And remember she wrote this on the internet LONG before the book was published and WITHOUT our knowing about it.

Joan said…But the reunion didn’t make for fun and joy. Because all that sorrow spilled out into anger. They were mad at me for living and Mom dying. They were jealous that I had two parents and they did not. Oh, the relationships did’t start falling apart for several years, but, my stress, I was the one in the middle…crying all the time, deep depression, fear, and I was the baby. It was clear that I didn’t fit in because they grew up together and I was not with them. They grew to dislike me because I became an adoption activist. The more I wrote in the newpsaper, the more my relatives from both families complained that I should keep my mouth shut. Why? I’m not illegtimate so there’s not SHAME. They can have their family crests, but I can’t have mine.

Gert comments… Here is an example of how Joan’s ‘inner self’ dictates everything around her and how she projects it upon others (against their knowledge) and then believes her own bullshit. We were not mad at her, didn’t blame her, nor were we jealous. It was ALL her own behavior that got everyone upset with her.

It was HER sorrow that got in the way. I recall telling her many times to STOP attempting to REACH our mother’s soul! Let her RIP, but no Joan had to go to spiritualists to make ‘contact’. Joan’s mental stability, then and now, is NOT a result of being reunited with the birth family. Her behavior is a direct result from the way Joan was RAISED by the adoptive parents. Joan didn’t fit in, with the birth family, because her behavior was INAPPROPRIATE AND UNACCEPTABLE to everyone in the birth family. Joan does not know nor understand ‘personal boundaries’.

We didn’t care if she was an ‘activist’….only that she pestered everyone, taking notes, writing fabrications and then published our real names in an article (The Secret is Out) without gaining our permission. Myself, personally, I didn’t KNOW what she wrote in the newspaper for I moved away from Buffalo in 1982 and had ‘divorced’ myself from her AFTER she violated my parental rights, interfered with the minor children and called false child abuse on me because I ADOPTED my son!

Then AFTER decades of not knowing what she was doing I found that she published a libelous book. Joan NEVER takes responsibility for her own actions! Yes there is no ‘shame’ on Joan’s ‘birth’ but there is SHAME for how and why she writes about blood kin!

Joan said…I explained my feelings recently to an elderly woman: It’s like being bi-racial: neither side wants you. And she said, “I know. I’m half Asian and half white, no one wants me, either.”

Gert comments… Perhaps if Joan wasn’t such an idiot and stopped interfering in other people’s lives and didn’t fabricate tales, she may have been accepted!

Joan said…Prejudice exists. And it hurts.

Gert comments…Well for once she said something that’s correct! Such hurts have been felt by every member of the birth family because of Joan’s behavior to us.

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FOOD FOR THOUGHT…just saying! there’s more to Joan M Wheeler/Doris M Sippel than meets the eye

interesting article

duped by adoption & an woman's Struggle for Identity, a book study

Interesting article here…

nature vs nurture…sure constant debate…but…from those of us of the BIRTH family NONE of us have HER behavioral issues! so…was it an accident of the fates/biology or her upbringing that was NOT the same as the other siblings? who knows, who really cares? Facts remain…she isn’t like the rest of us

https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2017/06/when-your-child-is-a-psychopath/524502/?utm_source=atlfb

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Doris Michol Sippel fka Joan Mary Wheeler was recently in a depressed state for some time (as per own admission) and WHAM! came out of it into a full-blown manic episode and foaming at the mouth over her anti-adoption and her hatred of her birth sisters.

Source: Doris Michol Sippel fka Joan Mary Wheeler was recently in a depressed state for some time (as per own admission) and WHAM! came out of it into a full-blown manic episode and foaming at the mouth over her anti-adoption and her hatred of her birth sisters.